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Armymama, we will be doing no kitchen renovations, because there is no kitchen, at all. That is the beauty of it, this is an empty (A couple of offices on the ground floor and a bathroom) 4 story building. EVERYTHING is going to be from scratch. WE are hiring an architect firm to draw up the floor plans. We will have a garage/storage area in the basement, office space for me and some rental offices on the ground floor, living space/kitchen/pantries/freezers etc. on the second floor, library , den, family roomon the third and bedrooms on the fourth. Lots of bath and half bathrooms, too.
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Indie, I am hearing you, but there is no need to worry. I have not done anything that I haven't told my wife about, and I am fully in control of my actions. It's the actions of others that floor me. Besides, I will be pretty busy for the foreseeable future, and most of these women don't live anywhere near Chicago. So, problem solved.
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We have an MB coach. She is a gem. She keeps us on track, intervenes when one or both of us is feeling bad. She helps us to figure out why and gets us back in the right direction. The MB coaches have regualar meetings with Dr. Harley to assess progress. The program is a very good one. You have to do the work though. Things don't happen magically. They happen with time and attention.
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WH - 65
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
H broke contact 11/1/09
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The Road, keep your sexist comments to yourself, OK? My Mom is a woman, so I shouldn't talk to her? My cousin, also a woman, is she poison too? I have been totally honest with ALL the Ladies that I've talked to, telling them unequivocally that I am not in the market. To call me a Wayward is extremely insulting, and you need not participate on my thread if you're going to cause trouble. Do it again and I will contact the moderator. I don't need this kind o
f disrespectful crap. Mirror mirror, Hmmm....not on the market? So planning a weekend getaway, booking a hotel with an exGF is perfectly normal behavior for a BS? Puh-lease, your behavior and attitude is very similar to a wayward. You are so incredibly defensive what else are you going to reveal say 6 months from now? I feel you are trickle-truthing this forum and bashing posters who have invested a lot of energy into teaching you MB concepts. Why are you excluded from Extraordinary precautions? Both spouses need to have EP's in place, not just the WS!
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OM #1 ONS July 2010
OM #2 internet/text EA (9/10-2/11)
He: WH 38 yrs
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Do any of you people actually READ ALL of my posts, or do you just nitpick the things you don't like? Calisun, you didn't see fit to participate much before and NOW your criticizing me? GEEZ!!
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MM, I have read all your posts in your various threads. I have posted to you in the past and was met with belligerent comments. I want nothing but the best for your marriage, but you fail to see where MB is your greatest assett. Your boundaries are atrocious and you are indeed a wayward. I only urge you to adopt extraordinary precautions so your marriage can thrive, but reasoning with a wayward is silly so I am OUT. Good luck.
Me: 34yrs
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MM, I have read all your posts in your various threads. I have posted to you in the past and was met with belligerent comments. I want nothing but the best for your marriage, but you fail to see where MB is your greatest assett. Your boundaries are atrocious and you are indeed a wayward. I only urge you to adopt extraordinary precautions so your marriage can thrive, but reasoning with a wayward is silly so I am OUT. Good luck. I don't agree with you, but thank you for your comments.
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Me: 34yrs
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