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I gotta admit, I really didn't see him going through with this. So glad to be wrong!
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He left his phone in the car too!
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good time to download some software on it!
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I don't have a credit card now, so I can't download any software on his phone!!! :-(
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Any chance a friend / family member might offer credit card to pay until you get it sorted? I wouldn't want to waste the opportunity.
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Ive heard spectorsoft eblaster recommended.
Can you google it? There should be instructions on downloading on the site....
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I don't think I'm going to have time. I only have 30 minutes.
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Had a search of operation investigate and some threads were saying iPhones are tricky to spyware (no idea if this is true though, I'm out of my comfort zone!) A few said downloading an app is your best bet......
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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I don't think I'm going to have time. I only have 30 minutes. Dont worry. If you have to, make sure his phone meets with an accident v soon and buy him a new one that's 'pre-conditioned' and all ready to go!
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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You should be able to do it later as long as he doesn't password lock his phone, which obviously your conditions for working on a R would bar him from doing...
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I agree! We are supposed to get the results in the morning. I can't believe that he actually went through with it!!! I was starting to have my doubts! At one point during the video that we had to watch about the polygraph, he looked like he was going to get up to leave, but he didn't!
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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The question is going to be this, but worded differently a few times:
Other than what you have already admitted, have you had any sexual contact with any other woman besides your wife?
Sexual contact will be thoroughly described to him so there are no misunderstandings! I'm keeping everything crossed!!!
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Starfish, you deserve a standing ovation. So well done.
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Looks like this is available for iphones now. I'll keep reading up on it and see what's what http://www.mobile-spy.com/iphone.html
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Starfish, you deserve a standing ovation. So well done. Well, it's a sitting ovation, but... ![[Linked Image from images.wikia.com]](http://images.wikia.com/glee/images/a/a7/CLAP.gif)
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i am so glad he went thru with this!!
the question sounds good!
go out for a nice dinner after.
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working the plan
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Thank you so much... I'm so thankful for all of your support! I couldn't have done it without all of you!!!
He had made dinner plans with his friend and I'm not quite ready to go out to dinner yet... waiting for the results tomorrow morning!!!
He did call to tell me that it was the most nerve wracking thing he has ever done in his life. He also said that he is wanting to start rebuilding our marriage, he has nothing to hide and loves me.
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