There is no such thing as a modified Plan B. That is Plan C and the quickest route to divorce. You should plan A right up until a very dark Plan B.

did you not read this is per jennifer harley whatever

Any updates SQ?

No, Dr H and Joyce told her on the radio that she should only communicate with him about her son. Which is Plan B and should be done through an IM to prevent other topics being raised. However she is struggling to get into a proper Plan B and to find an approporiate IM

I haven't written on here for a while bc I'm now on the divorcing board as well but I feel like I still need the guidance from y'all.
update: WH is not being cooperating with attorneys. I filed for a D on Feb 24 and he was served that next Monday. We had to go to court twice bc the first time he wouldn't agree to any terms with mediation. Finally got some agreements but he has been dragging his feet on providing financial statements to attorneys. His attorney has actually quit bc he has been so difficult so on May 29th our temp orders will be signed by the judge, his lawyer will be withdrawing from the case, and my lawyer is filing a motion to compel. POSOW has her 2 kids every other week so they (her and WH) have "free" weekends with no kids. Basically she is living with him in his apartment the week she doesn't have her kids. WH had been calling, texting, emailing me daily basically just to talk. I was not answering the phone calls and would only answer text/emails concerning our DS. Then he would show up at the house unannounced. Which he is not to do per the temp orders. Told him just this past Monday that he is not to call me, text me, or email me for any reason except concerning our DS. So far he has respected that but we will see about next week when she is not around so much. He would call more and text more when she had her kids. He also asked me to watch this video on YouTube and it was this guys testimony about his recovery from sex addiction and his divorce. WH told me that he wanted help and prays for God to lead him. But he has not gone to anyone for help or reached out to anyone for help. We have friends who are recovering from their own infidelity issues he could easily reach out to for help. I know that he is probably not getting help bc he is not ready to give up his mistress. He's still having to much fun even though I exposed the A. Our TO are set through the end of the year so I am set until then financially at least.
I am re-setting my boundaries that I let slip bc I was confused about his attentions. I felt as if he was pursuing me like when we first started dating. This week has been rough bc I have been having the withdraws of not hearing from him. But I know it is for the best. I go back and forth between sadness and anger. I much prefer the anger than the sadness.
I am still searching for someone to help me with the pickup/drop offs for my DS.

Are you doing all this without an IM?

Yes. I haven't had any luck with that.