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Hi everyone,
He doesn't know her last name. Although, I have been trying to find her on FB, based on the club she works at. So right now, I am waiting for her to contact him. He has released passcodes.
We have separately told my son. And gosh it was hard. He says he just wants daddy, back home, even if that doesn't make me happy. We talked more, and i explained, hoping he would get it. he seemed to.
I checked into the polygraph, and it is about $500. I checked the other forum, and saw great q's. I need to set up an appointment. But I see I need to ask how the q's go.
Thank you all for the links, and cont support.
BS (Me) - 38
WS - 40
DS - 9
DD - 9
DDAY 5/12/2012
Married 12 years
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You need to be checked for STDs. Did WH pay for the BJs? You should require a poly because chances are it was more than 2 BJs. How in the world do I/we tell the kids??? Here is my suggestion for 9 year old kids. The 2 of you sit with them. Ask them how their day is going. etc. Then say something like: " Daddy has made some bad choices and now he is trying to repair the damage he has done. Daddy did things with another woman he met at a bar. Daddy did things with that woman (do not call her a lady) that he should ONLY do with Mommy. Things like kissing and touching private parts. If you see us being upset, please understand that this has nothing to do with either of you. We are upset because of Daddy's bad choices. Do you have any questions? If you have questions later. please ask us. We want to make sure your questions get answered.
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