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Re: have to save my marriage nandu #2633646 06/07/12 08:43 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357 M maritalbliss Member
maritalbliss Member M Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357	Originally Posted by nandu i had no solid proof..so cudnt say anything Why did you not GET proof?? D-Day 2-10-2009 Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever! Thank you Marriage Builders!

Re: have to save my marriage BrainHurts #2633689 06/07/12 11:50 PM
Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 20,477 Likes: 6 Moved to Uranus B BrainHurts Member
BrainHurts Member B Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 20,477 Likes: 6 Moved to Uranus	Originally Posted by nandu I am not aware of that but he is friends with a woman who he claimed in public to have an affair with. Yaa they were very much married. The guy I had an affair with was not married. How is this not proof of your WH's affair? FWW/BW (me) WH 2nd M for both Blended Family with 7 kids between us Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.

Re: have to save my marriage maritalbliss #2635439 06/13/12 08:13 PM
Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 13 N nandu Junior Member
nandu Junior Member N Joined: Jun 2012 Posts: 13	I kept thinking ..may be he is joking..so dint bother was so busy trying to raise kids and running the house. But after my disclosure he has admitted yaa there was something. To which I replied ' why' . I was young that time why did you do this? He then starts thinking I did to take revenge...which is not the case at all..I did not plan it just happened.

Re: have to save my marriage nandu #2635441 06/13/12 08:27 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357 M maritalbliss Member
maritalbliss Member M Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357	Originally Posted by nandu I kept thinking ..may be he is joking..so dint bother was so busy trying to raise kids and running the house. But after my disclosure he has admitted yaa there was something. To which I replied ' why' . I was young that time why did you do this? He then starts thinking I did to take revenge...which is not the case at all..I did not plan it just happened. Nandu, what is your goal, here? You admit that your husband has been unfaithful, you know it and you're okay with it because he's a good provider. You admit you've had your own affair, he found out and beat you. We told you to get the hell outta Dodge, and you immediately made the beatings out to be less than they are. (For God's sake, woman! HE BEAT YOU! If my H laid one finger on me he'd be out the door so fast, his shoes would be left behind at the door! Being beaten is NOT a normal act in marriage!) What is your goal? I'm not sure that I can tell from your posts. D-Day 2-10-2009 Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever! Thank you Marriage Builders!

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