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My rant for the day: Two faced people who talk out of both sides of their mouth and pretend to care.   Why do they come back and do that? Is it some kind of sick joke to "act" like they care? Why not stay away? Maybe because they were mentioned specifically? Sheesh. This isn't the first time.
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Why do they come back and do that? Is it some kind of sick joke to "act" like they care? Why not stay away? Some people like to play on both sides of the fence. They figure if one side fails them, they've always got the other. It kind of reminds me of the mean girls I was in elementary school with. Sweet to your face, dagger in your back. I got to watch the karma bus in 8th grade though - my 'friend' came up and apologized to me for something she said to someone about me that was snarky and completely untrue. Here's the funny: I hadn't heard what she'd said before she apologized to me!  I obviously cut that friend off without a backward glance - who needs friends like that, right? 
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New bad typist....brings back the memories.......
"Get busy living, or get busy dying"...... The Shawshank Redemption.
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My rant for the day: Two faced people who talk out of both sides of their mouth and pretend to care. Why do they come back and do that? Is it some kind of sick joke to "act" like they care? Why not stay away? Maybe because they were mentioned specifically? Sheesh. Sheesh is right. I don't recall mentioning anyone "specifically" in my rant above. However, as the saying goes... if the shoe fits... **shrug**
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Sheesh is right. I don't recall mentioning anyone "specifically" in my rant above. However, as the saying goes... if the shoe fits... **shrug** Yeah, I wondered about that. I didn't see you mention any names at all. Heck, your post could have been about anyone, or anything - it could have been something that had nothing to do with this site at all.
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One more rant and I'm done for the night:
CANCER SUCKS!
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One more rant and I'm done for the night:
CANCER SUCKS! SURE DOES. In every way possible. 
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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One more rant and I'm done for the night:
CANCER SUCKS! I'm so sorry, sweetie  Lots of people are sending up prayers, and there is so much power there.
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One more rant and I'm done for the night:
CANCER SUCKS! I'm so sorry, sweetie Lots of people are sending up prayers, and there is so much power there. So sorry PM. 
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If I had a dollar for every post that said, "I wish I would have done EVERYTHING you said whan I was here XXX months ago", I would be spending my summers skiing in Patagonia.
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If I had a dollar for every post that said, "I wish I would have done EVERYTHING you said whan I was here XXX months ago", I would be spending my summers skiing in Patagonia.
AM Yep. And they would likely be recovered. Sigh.
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If I had a dollar for every post that said, "I wish I would have done EVERYTHING you said whan I was here XXX months ago", I would be spending my summers skiing in Patagonia.
AM Yep. And they would likely be recovered. Sigh. Heres another dollar for that skiing trip AM 
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One more rant and I'm done for the night:
CANCER SUCKS! It does, and I know how you feel. I feel the same way about Alheimer's.
Every man I meet is in some way my superior; and in that I can learn of him.
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One more rant and I'm done for the night:
CANCER SUCKS! I've been through it, my friend, and have it behind me by 6+ years. You can make it!
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For all those who I made do this:  Can't Make Dent In Wall I got it.
"Get busy living, or get busy dying"...... The Shawshank Redemption.
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I'm going to assume that you and I are thinking of the same poster.
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Yes sir!
Need to have a couple new emotes made.....
"Get busy living, or get busy dying"...... The Shawshank Redemption.
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I end up sitting on the edge of my chair cheering when I see posters exposing the affair. I sometimes wish I would fall out of my chair because we would have so many exposing instead of them being saddled by fear.
"Get busy living, or get busy dying"...... The Shawshank Redemption.
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It's nice to see people standing up for themselves and kind of makes up for some of the circular threads that have been making the rounds lately.
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