We had sent out a no contact letter to her. It has been months , and bam! she used a diiferent name, and got through to him.

He said this is what was said..."Is your wife still mad"???? lol, and "he said to her I am dead to you, don't call me again", and she said ok , and hung up.

When he told me name she used my daughter said she tried to befriend her on facebook a month ago!

What now?? Husband says he wasn't mean-just stern, when asked why he said he didn't want her being vindictive, and doing something on our Company face book page, etc.

So, I ask what if she calls again, he said he would be mean then, but he thinks she got the picture?

I phoned her right after the phone call, and told her to leave mt husband, and family alone,,and did she hear me, she said no I don't hear you, and hung up?

I'm glad she now knows my number cause there is no way he would be able to sleep with someone like her, and she not talk.

He would give her gifts for sex, so to me she was ver hooker like.

Don't contact her any more. It only gives her power over you. If she has a husband or BF, contact them, instead.

Give your hubby a great big hug for telling you about this! Unfortunately, he needs to start looking for another job, transfer, something. You both need to feel safe.

ok I won't..she is single sadly!

How did she call him? As a part of his EP's, he should have changed his phone number, which would leave her no ability to call him regardless of what name she used.

Do they still work together?

What have you done to expose?

He owns a business, he would have to end this for her never to get numbers for our office.He did change his cell number, and all the csrs are instructed to never give out his number. We could never end this business.

They never worked together, met at a bar. She actually lives 50 mins from here. She does come to our area once in a while, was in our town when she called him.

Told WH's brother, our daughter, our son, OW mother, with no response back from her..

He said he will just hang up next time.

I can tell you first-hand, even if she only calls every 2 years, it's going to damage what sounds like a very good recovery.

It's not so critical that he needs to quit tonight, or next month. But with her close enough to cause trouble whenever the mood strikes her, distance is your best permanent solution.

You've got time...just open your thoughts to relocation, and start keeping your eyes open for other areas his business will do well. And if when she calls again, in the meantime, hanging up isn't just the best option, it's the only good option.

Your advice will be taken, thanks!

She sounds like a creep. Two words: Restraining Order.

And.....if she calls him ever.....it would be better for him to hang up without another word each time she tries. No verbal engagement, just the hang up.

Being 'mean' to her is engaging with her.

Zip.

And, to tell you each time so that you are his confident.