Police can't help me.

You need to contact the local offices of your Congressman, and your two Senators. You need to contact the FBI, and report an illegal international child abduction (let them figure out what Puerto Rico is). You need to start on this webpage, right now!

GO!

Back on 9/11, you said you were going to meet with a lawyer on 9/12. Did that meeting ever happen?

You need to see your lawyer first thing this morning and follow his advice. With the DV charge against your wife and the sexual abuse charges against the OM, there should be no problem getting a court order for the return of your children. Then you need temporary orders on visitation, child support, etc.

I'm still foggy on the details, one of your children is only your stepson, right? Not much can be done concerning his custody because he is not yours. Is the other one yours? How old are they?

Your WW has been in contact with OM and they have hatched this whole thing up. She probably has a prepaid "affair phone."

It's time to take a stand. You call the shots, not your WW.

Gave some more thought to this situation:

1) If she has really bolted to PR, she bought airfare somehow. Your online credit card statements can help here.

2) I'm in agreement that she's stashed the kids with MIL, and is in Chicago, getting her skanky pipes cleaned. Get the local gendarmerie looking for MIL. She's about to discover she's an accessory to several crimes against children. Alert said law officials to WW's likely location. You're "problem" of confronting at the hotel just became a criminal issue for WW.

3) Inform her command of the information you have. Her actions are certainly in violation of the UCMJ, as well.

DSC, I'm sorry! Please try to keep your wits about you and make those calls suggested above.

~RQ

DSC

Her A was probably very deeply entrenched.

Sorry this has happened. You got T-Boned and never saw it coming.

Pull off the gloves and do whatever legally and through the military to get the children back in the marital home as suggested in the posts above.

Prayin for you man.

nESRE

My wife took our kids and hid them. She said I was mentally unstable.
I called the police, was told the same thing you were. They can't do anything. She has as much right to take them out of state as you do to keep them in state.

It is only temporary. She may be doing this to push your buttons.
It may have been planned with the OM.
Or she may be completely irrational.
Her mother may have planned it. I would ban her for life when this is done. PERMANENT ban from the kids.

Start with the school. If they aren't in school call Children Services. Tell them your wife has mental health problems and ran off with the kids and they aren't in school. Waywards usually look like they have mental health problems so the authorities will think they do anyway. It helps your case.

Then call the police every 12 hours they are gone.

See an attorney today. You need to file for divorce to protect your children. When you file for divorce the court can issue an order prohibiting either party from concealing the whereabouts of minor children.

Send your friend to the hotel to check it out. See if she is there. See if OM is there. Do you think she would be willing to hand your kids off to him? If so call OM police supervisor and tell his department that your wife is concealing te whereabouts of minor children. That OM may be involved.

As for your stepson, contact his biological dad and let him know too.

Can you post the letter she wrote?

Do you have access to the cell phone online? From there you can see where calls are being placed from

Also. It is very important that everything you do is legal.
You can't lose your temper and hit OM or your wife or anything like that. If you choose to do that then you are choosing jail time and restraining orders against you being around your kids.

You need to stay focused and everything. This may take a few days to a few months to resolve. As long as you follow the advice of your attorney you will prevail.

I'm praying for you and your kids!

She has to show up for her drill.
If she doesn't she is AWOL. then the military Police will be lookin for her.
If she does show up then she will have to explain where the kids are.
If they are at her moms then you go to the moms house with Police and take the kids.
Either way these kids will be located soon

DCS

Did you see the orders for the drill or was it her word?

This may be part of a plan to confuse you and throw you off the trail with all that has happened.

Just asking

nESRE

I didn't see the orders. I got appointment set up to see a lawyer for divorce. I still have hope for our marriage. Going to Chicago to confront her and the OM because I strongly feel she is there. I will stick to my plan. Calling the link about abducted children after I post. I have a 4 yr old boy with WW and a 9 yr old step son. The note said I'm not abandoning you I just had to leave cause if I stay in the house I leave you to believe that there is hope when there isnt. I love our boys and I feel you will take them from me so I took them first. They are the only reason I'm still alive. I want you to know the marriage is over.
I talked to her on the phone and she claims she filing for divorce in PR and she will get it. I know that's a lie. She sent me a text saying I should send her mom money for our kids. That leads me to believe shes not there with them. Shes in Chicago. I'm praying I don't kill this son of a ***** when I get there. OM knows my wife is unstable. She also sent a text saying she feels like a b**** for doing this to me. She is showing remorse for her A and taking our children. I want to give her sometime but I'm going to Chicago to confirm what I already know. I will also call the parent abduction folks as well. I'm on the brink I want to save her our marriage and our kids but at the same time I'm scared

I really want to kill the OM. I never hated anyone or anything so much in my life. I won't though my values and morals are too high. It would be so easy to, god forgive me for having these thoughts

DSC. With your wife's history of depression, going off her meds, and this desperate sounding note...why won't the police issue an amber alert?

I"m not trying to scare you but I think you could build a strong case here.

Have you called the military and child services?
You need to do everything I recommended.
If she is in the states you need to go to Puerto Rico and get your kids NOW and forget about confronting her.
Your child needs to be your priority. Not your crazy slut wife

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DSC. do you know for a fact that the kids are in PR?

Calling the link about abducted children after I post.

YOU SAT ON THIS FOR THREE MOTHER-LOVING HOURS??!!!

Do you know what can happen in three hours with a deranged skank off her AD's? How does strapping them into the carseats and driving them into a lake sound?

Okay, you are as much a danger to your kids with your do-nothing hand-wringing as WW is with her fantasies of perpetual rutting with OM! Do you comprehend what I'm saying, or shall I be plainer?

Easy NG. I'm sure DSC is in crisis mode right now and doing everything he can. Let's wait and see. He has a lot that has been thrown at him here. I hope he has family available to help

I DID take it easy, RQ! I had three re-writes before I could get it as calm and measured as I did!

Okay,okay. I'm sure he could use a friend like you by his side right now. We can only do so much, unfortunately.