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My husband solicited sex online from anyone willing, male or female. I'm not sure how many, how often, and with who specifically. He deliberately solicited sex online through personal encounter websites on two occasions that I'm aware of while I was overseas.
This makes the whole exposure thing really difficult. I only saw his online profile page, and read the subject titles and dates of meetings he had set up by accident on my laptop. The online sex profile, emails and contacts were deleted immediately when he discovered I knew.
Now I have no evidence and he denies the whole thing.
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My husband solicited sex online from anyone willing, male or female. I'm not sure how many, how often, and with who specifically. He deliberately solicited sex online through personal encounter websites on two occasions that I'm aware of while I was overseas.
This makes the whole exposure thing really difficult. I only saw his online profile page, and read the subject titles and dates of meetings he had set up by accident on my laptop. The online sex profile, emails and contacts were deleted immediately when he discovered I knew.
Now I have no evidence and he denies the whole thing. Welcome to MB. Can you put spyware on everything now and lay low and gather the evidence? He will do it again when he thinks you're not watching.
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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If you need help finding suitable spyware, post on the Operation Investigate board. They'll fix you right up.
Other than that all I can say it -- do what BH said, she's right.
Last edited by karmasrose; 11/06/12 10:51 PM.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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can you go to a cached version of the page? i use chrome and have a cache extension to see older pages.
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Welcome to MB, Iam sorry for the pain that has brought you here, it is painful to discover this.
You've received great advice to help you find any futher evidence. I agree with Brainhurts, when WH thinks you are not watching he will visit these sites again. I know it's hard but try to remain cool and take care of yourself as you wait and gather evidence.
Me 46yrs
WH 46yrs "Isildur"
Married: 22yrs 8mths
DS 9yrs;DD 19yrs;DS 21yrs
Bomb drop:marriage not working don't know if ILY 12.11.11
DD:26.11.11
WH moves to OW house 28.11.11
Formal MB Plan A 14.4.12
Plan B 27.4.12
D:20.7.14
"There are moments in life that make us & set the course of who we become. Sometimes they're little & subtle,sometimes they're big & we never saw them coming. No one asks for their life to change, but it does. It's what we do afterwards that counts & we find out who we are."
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Get yourself tested for std.
Avoid unprotected sex with him.
Very sorry you need to be here.
Me 58: FWH (NC 32 yr), W 60, married 36 yr, DD 32
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