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Re: He refuses to try and continue with his affair
dduchess #2688437 12/05/12 08:00 AM
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In the movie Enemy at the Gates, the German sniper Koenig says of his opponent, Zeitsev, "He's not dead, because I haven't killed him yet!"

That should be your motto. Until you take the action to see that his affair is dead, root and branch, it is NOT dead. You want him regretting his infidelity more (if at all possible) than you do.

You also want every (extended) family member, every co-worker, every fellow-congregant, every person your WH knows to know what he is capable of, and to watch his actions (even if he only THINKS they are).
Re: He refuses to try and continue with his affair
dduchess #2690316 12/12/12 11:17 PM
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What are the spywares recommended for mobile phones?

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Re: He refuses to try and continue with his affair
dduchess #2690317 12/12/12 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted by dduchess
What are the spywares recommended for mobile phones?

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What brand of phone?

FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
Re: He refuses to try and continue with his affair
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Re: He refuses to try and continue with his affair
dduchess #2690329 12/13/12 04:12 AM
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Have you tried the Operation Investigate forum.

Me 46yrs
WH 46yrs "Isildur"
Married: 22yrs 8mths
DS 9yrs;DD 19yrs;DS 21yrs
Bomb drop:marriage not working don't know if ILY 12.11.11
DD:26.11.11
WH moves to OW house 28.11.11
Formal MB Plan A 14.4.12
Plan B 27.4.12
D:20.7.14

"There are moments in life that make us & set the course of who we become. Sometimes they're little & subtle,sometimes they're big & we never saw them coming. No one asks for their life to change, but it does. It's what we do afterwards that counts & we find out who we are."
Re: He refuses to try and continue with his affair
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Originally Posted by dduchess
Iphone 4
Did you see this?
iPhone 4S Help

FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
Re: He refuses to try and continue with his affair
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