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That was all my fault. I wasn't thinking and was scared of my WW's anger. Out of all this that is my biggest regret. If you need to reference mistakes I made please feel free to. If I can't save my marriage I can sleep well knowing my experience has helped others. Sending out the new exposure with evidence to the POSOM church, MIL and great grandmother today. Feel relieved that I got all the information I need.

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Sent the evidence in the mail. Spoke with lawyer about various issues and feeling alot better about my stance. Next week I am going to have to be prepared for the anger that comes from a real exposure not some letter with no evidence that I sent before. Can't wait, yay.

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Nothing new here but finding a lot of relief helping others in their threads. Will post new news as it comes.

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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
Nothing new here but finding a lot of relief helping others in their threads. Will post new news as it comes.
Have you heard anything from the exposure you sent off?

Way to pay it forward.


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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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No word yet on the exposure. Going to give it a week or so.

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Got a text from SIL asking how I found the information on POSOM sent her a link of his swinger profile and arrest. Exposure is coming! I am excited!

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Great job!

And I agree with Brainy girl, your doing good paying it forward!

~RQ

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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
Got a text from SIL asking how I found the information on POSOM sent her a link of his swinger profile and arrest. Exposure is coming! I am excited!

Remember SIL may just be acting as an agent for ww

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Yea that's why I didn't divulge my snooping tactics! Thanks for the compliments everyone! Fighting the good fight!

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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
No word yet on the exposure. Going to give it a week or so.


Originally Posted by TranquilDark
Got a text from SIL asking how I found the information on POSOM sent her a link of his swinger profile and arrest. Exposure is coming! I am excited!


Originally Posted by TranquilDark
Yea that's why I didn't divulge my snooping tactics! Thanks for the compliments everyone! Fighting the good fight!


Good, better, best.

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Well WW told her MIL not to let me talk to SS. She is spinning all kinds of tales about the exposure. SS called me anyways to speak to DS, smart boy. He told me about the no talk order and how WW said she will get him next month. Another lie she is stalling and keeping that poor child in limbo. She will have him living with POSOM who lives with his mother. While she is there, that poor boy is going to be abused by POSOM who doesn't take care of his own sons. I'm furious but its out of my hands now. Pray for my family everyone. God bless.

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I'll be praying TD.


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At least he can contact you if he needs to...


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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This is where the ongoing Children Services investigation can help.
What about the visitation?
Did your attorney get that reversed?

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Decided to keep as is so I can plan A.

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How did the visit go?

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She didn't set up the time as per the court order. I'm really upset with her she's putting POSOM over our children and now its evident.

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Well she abandoned her kids months ago.
She doesn't care about you or them

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Well she came to see DD went ok I supposed got her a small gift and she liked it. Smiled then realized it was from me then said something snotty was kinda of hilarious. Making progress I guess. Thanks for your prayers!

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Good job

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