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Dad,

I wanted to drop in and try to help bolster your resolve.

There will be plenty of time later to cater to your emotional impulses. Believe me, it's not something you should look forward to.

I know you're hurt and really pissed off, but you have to stay cool. Use your insight into her devious thoughts and activities to get ahead of her. Continue to collect evidence and think of new ways to entrap her. When you confront her, it must be a flawless entrapment, without the slightest crack for her to wriggle through ('cause the posters here will testify that waywards are slicker than hagfish [a.k.a. snot eels]).

Please come to this board to vent, curse, cry, and rail into eternity, but when you look at your WW, you have to stay cool and try to act as normal and clueless as is humanly possible.

You can do this, and the good people on this web site will guide you and guard your back while you go through this.

So sorry to see what you're going through.

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Please follow the advise of gathering more iron clad evidence.
Then do the massive nuclear exposure, so get that lined up.
Meanwhile, Plan A, and avoid LB's.

i love what Gamma suggested with the parking lot, that would be awesome.

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Look at it this way: Whatever you paid for the GPS unit will be so much wasted $$ as soon as WW knows how you know as much about her activities as you do.

So the trick would be to "discover" her activities without the smoking gun of GPS usage.

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Dad, update, please?


D-Day 2-10-2009
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Hi all,
Thanks so much for the encouragement the other night it really helped me keep my emotions in check. I actually did not see my wife when she got home that night as it was around 1AM hen she got in. When i saw her in the morning I acted as if all was normal and I knew nothing. Nothing unusual since on the tracker of recorder but i have a sneaky feeling tonight i may gather more intel. That is if the GPS stops acting wonky. Sometimes it cant seem to find the unit and even though it says it is supposed to last 7 days on a charge I am lucky to get 2. Which is a pain as it is tough to get it out of her car, get it charged and get it back in without getting caught. So that is the update for now, really nothing new. Of course I may be on here venting again tonight.

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maybe her vehicle in in a parking structure and the GPS cant pick up the signal?

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Originally Posted by Jedi_Knight
maybe her vehicle in in a parking structure and the GPS cant pick up the signal?

That might be the case but it seems to happen very intermittently.

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