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Well,i would think the professor would have retired by now.OW2 graduated years ago.
I have absolutely no way of knowing first hand about whether he is still in touch with these 2 OW.Plus,we are separated.
Moreover,these are ones i got to know.Dont know how many more there are.
I can try for a PI if i can manage the funds.
Any idea,if offlines sent from a fake ID qualify as evidence?My husband, though, has owned upto this saying he did cheat in front of mediators but the professor's case is tricky.
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Well,i would think the professor would have retired by now.OW2 graduated years ago.
I have absolutely no way of knowing first hand about whether he is still in touch with these 2 OW.Plus,we are separated.
Moreover,these are ones i got to know.Dont know how many more there are.
I can try for a PI if i can manage the funds.
Any idea,if offlines sent from a fake ID qualify as evidence?My husband, though, has owned upto this saying he did cheat in front of mediators but the professor's case is tricky. You definitely have enough for OW1. Did your WH confess about OW2 also?
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Joined: Mar 2013
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hi,
The professor's case is dicey.An old never married woman who has her loyal band of students that she 'mentored' & people who swear by her cos she claims to be a social activist who helps people. She has an adopted son.
Her list of admirers include not only my H but also his family who she has helped financially.
I dont know how to expose her at the university or amongst people who hold her in high regard.
My H either laughs it off whenever i bring it up in front of people or gets plain wild when its just the two of us.So,he has never accepted this but i can see he is very much into&influenced by her.
I do want to give her a piece of my mind but she is one wily creature so dont know how to confront or warn her.There is no way my H will agree to drafting a letter with me to keep her at bay.
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hi Ariel,
I see that you've merged my threads.
Is there some way that you could put my Multiple Affairs thread first?Thanks!
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