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Good job!! Now please set down and schedule out 15 hours of UA time for the week. Deduct time that is spent at work, watching TV or anything that creates a distraction. Write out the dates, times and plan your activities. Please post here when you are done. And keep in mind that you need to focus on the top 4 intimate ENs during that time.


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I lost access to my original email account, so I have had to re-register.

I have finished his needs her needs, and we are going through the workbook now.

We have been talking more than ever lately, and even though we seem to be making progress, she is unsure if staying together is the right thing to do. Anything I say at this point is just words, words that she heard the first time.
If I didn't really believe I could stay on track, I would rather divorce. It's not worth putting either of us through this again.

We have gone out twice this week, and we are both enjoying the time together. We are supposed to share our specific ENs tonight, which should give us both an agenda going forward.

Thanks for your suggestions and guidance, I will update tomorrow.

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Originally Posted by John_Torr13
I lost access to my original email account, so I have had to re-register.

I have finished his needs her needs, and we are going through the workbook now.

We have been talking more than ever lately, and even though we seem to be making progress, she is unsure if staying together is the right thing to do. Anything I say at this point is just words, words that she heard the first time.
If I didn't really believe I could stay on track, I would rather divorce. It's not worth putting either of us through this again.

We have gone out twice this week, and we are both enjoying the time together. We are supposed to share our specific ENs tonight, which should give us both an agenda going forward.

Thanks for your suggestions and guidance, I will update tomorrow.

Good Work. Thanks for the update! When she tells you that she is not sure about the future, just try to reassure her that you want to be with her and your focus will be ONLY on HER. That is what YOU want. She needs to feel wanted.

Did you make her feel wanted by initiating SF? You have had 2 dates, so you have had the chance to initiate SF. What's happening with that?


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