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Lol guess the crazies hit when she is hitting rock bottom. What a day was happy and cheerful but this happens but on good note I got frustrated in a problem with moving stuff around and just calmed down and solved tge problem.
Married for 3 years
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Whoops dont want to make a dj. Sorry still trying to word things better.
Married for 3 years
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me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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Whoops dont want to make a dj. Sorry still trying to word things better. That's what's important is that you're catching it. Keep up the good good work.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Thanks I just feel like I might be going sane in a insane world.
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my ds 8
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She called again but I was working so I couldnt answer guess its time for me to suck it up and answer next time she calls. Use it as a chance to deposit love units in her lb. Any suggestions?
Married for 3 years
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me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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She called again but I was working so I couldnt answer guess its time for me to suck it up and answer next time she calls. Use it as a chance to deposit love units in her lb. Any suggestions? Be very pleasant and if she tries to talk divorce, you say "I don't talk divorce my lawyer does" I don't think it's a good idea to talk to her until after the hearing next Wednesday. If you do, can you record the conversation?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Not at the moment. I dont think she will talk divorce but anything can happen.
Guess ill call the insurance company to let them know when I can pay them what I owe.
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2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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Not at the moment. I dont think she will talk divorce but anything can happen.
Guess ill call the insurance company to let them know when I can pay them what I owe. Then maybe call her and say the insurance is taken care of. 
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I called the insurance company and its taken care of. I had the agent give her a call to let her know.
Married for 3 years
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2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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I called the insurance company and its taken care of. I had the agent give her a call to let her know. Good job.
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
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Thank you. I just hate getting that feeling in your gut that something is either going to be good or bad.
Married for 3 years
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my ds 8
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On a good note ww is letting dsd to hang out with me tomorow for fathers day.
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Glad I took dsd and ds out. I would have to say its the best fathers day gift ever. Also to all the bs' s out there even though things arw going rough we have the kids to make things go smoother.
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her dd 14
my ds 8
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Glad I took dsd and ds out. I would have to say its the best fathers day gift ever. Also to all the bs' s out there even though things arw going rough we have the kids to make things go smoother. Happy Fathers Day. What a wonderful gift.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Glad to hear your WW wasn't to silly and I'm glad to hear your day was awesome. I said a prayer for you last night.
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Thank you I hope you are having a good fathers day also.
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About the letter would it be better if i emailed it or drop it off at her mothers house?
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About the letter would it be better if i emailed it or drop it off at her mothers house? I think whichever you decide would be fine
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
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Ok just making sure. Today is my hearing for court.
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