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Hello all. I know that a template for an exposure letter has been posted on this forum before. Could someone please post it again? Thanks so much.
My story in a nutshell: My husband has been a teacher for many years. Before I met him, he had an affair with an underage student. She broke it off and married another guy. She found him on Facebook in 2009, told him she had always loved him, and they started an online affair. She has been divorced 3 times and had two failed live-in relationships. I found out about the affair and it stopped. We went into what I now realize was a false recovery.
In 2012, the affair began again. He says he is leaving me to be with her. I have explosed to all of my family and our children and also his family. He is unemployed. I have not exposed to the AP's family yet. She is not married. If I get the template, I would like to expose to her side. Thanks!
BW Me, 56
WH, him 58
DS 25, 20, DD 23
EA (woman from his past contacted him on Facebook and EA started 7/09)
DD 8/9/09
NC 9/22/09
EA restarts 7/20/12
I learn of it 4/11/13
DD 7/8/13
Filed for Separation 7/26/13
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Hello all. I know that a template for an exposure letter has been posted on this forum before. Could someone please post it again? Thanks so much.
My story in a nutshell: My husband has been a teacher for many years. Before I met him, he had an affair with an underage student. She broke it off and married another guy. She found him on Facebook in 2009, told him she had always loved him, and they started an online affair. She has been divorced 3 times and had two failed live-in relationships. I found out about the affair and it stopped. We went into what I now realize was a false recovery.
In 2012, the affair began again. He says he is leaving me to be with her. I have explosed to all of my family and our children and also his family. He is unemployed. I have not exposed to the AP's family yet. She is not married. If I get the template, I would like to expose to her side. Thanks! Here are a few templates from the Notable Posts section of this forum: Exposure Letter SamplesDo you have hard evidence of the affair stored away in a safe place?
Married 1980
DDay Nov 2010
Recovered thanks to Marriage Builders
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Expose to the OWs family. I am very sure that they will rake your WH (and their daughter) over the coals for daring to do this to their daughter and family. As they should!
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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You can find all the templates in here, i.e. Facebook, workplace, family. Exposure 101
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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You can find all the templates in here, i.e. Facebook, workplace, family. Exposure 101Good job, BH. 
D-Day 2-10-2009
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You can find all the templates in here, i.e. Facebook, workplace, family. Exposure 101Good job, BH.
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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