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she uses her ipad so how do I key log her?

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anyone good with ipads?
She could be using it during the day at work also

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Originally Posted by Ah75
anyone good with ipads?
She could be using it during the day at work also

Ah,

I have no experience with this program, but I did a little reading and it sounds pretty good. It also offers a 10 day money back guarantee. ---> http://ipadkeylogger.com/

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Ipads are no different than Iphones. Easiest way to see what is going on is sync the Ipad with a computer and then you can pull the back up using a back up viewer.

There are ways around this as well if the Ipad is password protected.


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Originally Posted by MrsWondering
Originally Posted by Ah75
anyone good with ipads?
She could be using it during the day at work also

Ah,

I have no experience with this program, but I did a little reading and it sounds pretty good. It also offers a 10 day money back guarantee. ---> http://ipadkeylogger.com/

Mrs. W

That looks pretty interesting!!


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Originally Posted by Ah75
anyone good with ipads?
She could be using it during the day at work also



**EDIT**

I surmise that you are unhappy with your wife's criticism of her circumstances in the marriage, and blaming you for being at fault. You have mentioned you discussed these issues with your wife, but reasoning is a reward, for her being inconsiderate, as is silent consternation.

Can you delay expressing your ideas of reasoning, and problem solving, at least until she has had 15 minutes to vent?

**EDIT**

Harley's plan A is to be as fulfilling as possible, to extend full cooperation to your wife. Listening constructively is part of fulfilling her needs.




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Yes I'm trying to listen more. She vented about her day last night for a half hour at least. Felt nice to here her talk besides the bad stuff. "Us" I didn't try to solve or give my opinion. God I love her!!!!!

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Originally Posted by Ah75
Yes I'm trying to listen more. She vented about her day last night for a half hour at least. Felt nice to here her talk besides the bad stuff. "Us" I didn't try to solve or give my opinion. God I love her!!!!!

Lovebank deposits. Good job.

However if she's in an affair ... no deposit. Snoop and destroy the affair.

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Originally Posted by MrAlias
Originally Posted by Ah75
Yes I'm trying to listen more. She vented about her day last night for a half hour at least. Felt nice to here her talk besides the bad stuff. "Us" I didn't try to solve or give my opinion. God I love her!!!!!

Lovebank deposits. Good job.

However if she's in an affair ... no deposit. Snoop and destroy the affair.

Exactly right on both counts. You did good engaging her in conversation and staying away from relationship talk. DO continue to snoop and disrupt the affair.


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I ordered SAA yesterday! I will follow along in the book club

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I'm sure the old affair is over but not sure a new one didn't start. Keep on keeping on!

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Some asked not sure where. She is so beautiful and fun. One hell of a dancer and can make any meal taste great! I love the way she smiles, smells, tastes. Oh god give me the strength to make it through this orderl and come out closer and more in love.

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Question? If I can not prove or disprove there is a current affair what do I do?????

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Originally Posted by Ah75
Question? If I can not prove or disprove there is a current affair what do I do?????

Then you need to do a better job of snooping.


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When snooping brings up nothing then what?

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Tonight she's exhausted and in a blah mood not really in the mood to talk or vent. Guess I can't dig or start a conversation if she doesn't want to.

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Totally different mood then she was in last night. That's what's killing me there is no consistency from day to day. Up down all around. Is this NORMAL??

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Originally Posted by Ah75
When snooping brings up nothing then what?

If you have verified there is no affair then you would move onto other steps.


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Originally Posted by Ah75
When snooping brings up nothing then what?

What methods of snooping have you employed, Ah? Please be specific -- we want to help you make sure no stone has been left unturned, okay?

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Originally Posted by Ah75
When snooping brings up nothing then what?
What snooping have you done?


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