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I like Star Trek TNG! Star Wars is so full of plot holes that they need to keep pumping out movies to fill them!
DS hurt his hand a fracture. He's out for the T ball season! I sent that email Just, thanks. I also let her and her MIL know about DS's injury. Still no response, not worried though. Taking DS to see Spiderman this weekend in 3D! Will be his first 3D movie!
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I like Star Trek TNG! Star Wars is so full of plot holes that they need to keep pumping out movies to fill them!
DS hurt his hand a fracture. He's out for the T ball season! I sent that email Just, thanks. I also let her and her MIL know about DS's injury. Still no response, not worried though. Taking DS to see Spiderman this weekend in 3D! Will be his first 3D movie! Poor little guy!! A fracture and missing T-ball season?? That's no fun. I think Spiderman is the best medicine.  Doesn't Spiderman fix everything?
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I like Star Trek TNG! Star Wars is so full of plot holes that they need to keep pumping out movies to fill them!
DS hurt his hand a fracture. He's out for the T ball season! I sent that email Just, thanks. I also let her and her MIL know about DS's injury. Still no response, not worried though. Taking DS to see Spiderman this weekend in 3D! Will be his first 3D movie! Sorry to hear about your kids injury. My friend and I were both in love with 7of9 on Star Trek Voyager. We used to watch it every week together! I liked TNG too, Counselor Dianna
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My friend and I were both in love with 7of9 on Star Trek Voyager. For the record, that actress (Jeri Ryan) was previously married to an extremely abusive and misogynist husband. As a result of the breakdown of his marriage, he lost an election for U.S. Senate in Illinois. That U.S. Senate seat was then taken by a young Barack Obama, and of course we know he went on to become President. Look how much one broken marriage impacted the world, not to mention the careers of multiple people.
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My friend and I were both in love with 7of9 on Star Trek Voyager. For the record, that actress (Jeri Ryan) was previously married to an extremely abusive and misogynist husband. As a result of the breakdown of his marriage, he lost an election for U.S. Senate in Illinois. That U.S. Senate seat was then taken by a young Barack Obama, and of course we know he went on to become President. Look how much one broken marriage impacted the world, not to mention the careers of multiple people. Boy, check out the wayward fog from the former dirtbag husband: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jack_Ryan_%28politician%29#In_retrospect Subsequent to his withdrawal from the U.S. Senate race in Illinois, Jack Ryan has characterized what happened to him as a "new low for politics in America".[12] According to Ryan, it was unprecedented in American politics for a newspaper to sue for access to sealed custody documents. Ryan opposed unsealing the divorce records of Senator John Kerry during Kerry's race against George W. Bush in 2004, and Kerry's divorce records remained sealed. Ryan subsequently made a statement requesting "Let me be the only person this has happened to. Don�t ask for Ted Kennedy�s. Don�t ask for John McCain�s. Don�t ask for Joe Lieberman�s. Just stop. This is not a good precedent for American society if you really want the best and brightest to run."[12] After asking his wife to perform sex acts in public, I think he'd be the last person in the world who should be lecturing us on who the best and brightest are. What a scoundrel.
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WOW I remember that! I wanted to edit wikipedia to say "Till this day Jack Ryan is still wayward..." Your comments are true adultery destroys everything. I will never understand or attempt to understand a wayward's reasonings for an affair. Strange thing is POSOM is into that bizarre stuff. He has a "sexual addiction". I know that ailment has a ICD code but I believe its a cop out similiar to the "I was drunk" excuse people use to scape goat their way out of immoral behavior.
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My friend and I were both in love with 7of9 on Star Trek Voyager. For the record, that actress (Jeri Ryan) was previously married to an extremely abusive and misogynist husband. As a result of the breakdown of his marriage, he lost an election for U.S. Senate in Illinois. That U.S. Senate seat was then taken by a young Barack Obama, and of course we know he went on to become President. Look how much one broken marriage impacted the world, not to mention the careers of multiple people. As I recall, he did not lose election. The GOP forced him to withdraw and Ambassador Alan Keyes ran in his place, loosing to Obama
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My friend and I were both in love with 7of9 on Star Trek Voyager. For the record, that actress (Jeri Ryan) was previously married to an extremely abusive and misogynist husband. As a result of the breakdown of his marriage, he lost an election for U.S. Senate in Illinois. That U.S. Senate seat was then taken by a young Barack Obama, and of course we know he went on to become President. Look how much one broken marriage impacted the world, not to mention the careers of multiple people. As I recall, he did not lose election. The GOP forced him to withdraw and Ambassador Alan Keyes ran in his place, loosing to Obama I'm finally old enough my memory is starting to fail - I had totally forgotten about Alan Keyes taking over that race. Anyway, Ryan lost his chance at office, all thanks to his despicable swinging/wayward behavior. And still seems to think that people who would have been ruled by him had no right to pry into such details.
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Well I just confirmed some disturbing news. WW is pregnant, guess there will be no happy ending for TD. I gave a good fight didn't I? What should I do next? I am ready for Plan B. All advice will be GREATLY appreciated. Despite this horrible news I am not as mad or angry as I thought I would be. I guess the guilt of her pregnancy is what kept her from contacting me. I feel so sad for SS and DS.
edit: Should I let her know that I know?
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I suggest you email Dr. Harley, after prayer and much thought on this matter for guidance
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I guess the guilt of her pregnancy is what kept her from contacting me. I feel so sad for SS and DS.
edit: Should I let her know that I know? She probably got pregnant on purpose.
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Well I just confirmed some disturbing news. WW is pregnant, guess there will be no happy ending for TD. I gave a good fight didn't I? What should I do next? I am ready for Plan B. All advice will be GREATLY appreciated. Despite this horrible news I am not as mad or angry as I thought I would be. I guess the guilt of her pregnancy is what kept her from contacting me. I feel so sad for SS and DS.
edit: Should I let her know that I know? TD, you really did give it your best, and I am sorry that it has come to this. My suggestion is to make the Plan B as dark as possible to minimize the emotional impact on your life - and then begin rebuilding a life that makes you happy.
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edit: Should I let her know that I know? I wouldn't even talk to her - nothing to be gained, and it will just be unpleasant for you.
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I will email Dr. Harley and thanks for the advice. I think a Plan B will be in order.
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I agree you go dark and don't let her madness affect you anymore���..you tried that is all you can do�..there are no guarantees����
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edit: Should I let her know that I know? I wouldn't even talk to her - nothing to be gained, and it will just be unpleasant for you. Agreed.
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My question will be on the show today, BH could you post it here when you can? Thank you!
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Sorry TD...
You put up a heck of a battle. Be proud of what you tried to accomplish for your children. Time to protect yourself and heal.
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"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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I will email Dr. Harley and thanks for the advice. I think a Plan B will be in order. What is the purpose of the Plan B letter? To offer a door home if she ends the affair...or to tell her no contact forever?
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