Not in Plan B. We text regarding DD and it has been working well. I deactivated FB back in January when we attempted to reconcile and I don't miss it, so I don't see what he is doing via FB which is nice.

Yes, CS was established back in 9/2013 when we separated. He was paying without a court order. The court order began this month. He is also spending more time with DD than he did this past Summer when he was deep in the affair.

I am doing good as far as self-care. I go to the gym on days that xWH picks up DD at daycare. My family lives one hour north, so I see them more often. I go out with friends when they have time. I'm excited for it to warm up so I can do more things outside with DD. We live near a park with a splash pad, so we are looking forward to that.

This weekend will be one year since xWH met OW. I was out of town at a work event when he met her and I will be at that same event this year. I'm not anxious about it. It's kind of strange what a relief it is to be done with him.