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Hi everybody,
I've been reading here for awhile and I'm just exhausted and weary at the moment. I'll explain more another time as I don't have the energy for it today.
If it's okay, can I just have some hugs please?
Thanks.
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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama
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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama
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I see that some people have clicked on this thread and I guess I should have stated that I'm the BW in my situation. I have done nothing wrong other than give 20 years of my life to someone that clearly didn't deserve them.
Last edited by BrainFog; 05/11/14 02:32 PM.
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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama
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BF, welcome to Marriage Builders. We can help you with the program, but you will need to describe the situation and ask your question first. People can't respond if they don't know anything.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I understand that. I've been reading here for years. I'm too upset today to type anything substantial so it would be pointless at this moment.
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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama
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Never mind. I'll leave this site.
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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama
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Me 40, OD 18 and YD 13
Married 15 years, Divorced 10/2010
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Thanks NewEveryDay.
Somebody reported my post here so I guess being betrayed and hurt is not acceptable (or only acceptable for people who've already told their story).
I just am not up to it right now and really just wanted to reach out. Either way, I appreciate you being kind enough to give me hugs. I really, really needed some.
All the best to you.
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Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. Dalai Lama
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Thanks NewEveryDay.
Somebody reported my post here so I guess being betrayed and hurt is not acceptable (or only acceptable for people who've already told their story).
I just am not up to it right now and really just wanted to reach out. Either way, I appreciate you being kind enough to give me hugs. I really, really needed some.
All the best to you. Dr. Harley has programs to help people and save marriages. But being vague will not help find solutions to the problems that you face. Are you having an affair? Is your husband having an affair? Have you read Dr. Harley's books?
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Hi Brainfog, I'm hoping you feel better and more able to share your situation.
You're wrong if you think the people on this site dont know HOW BAD the pain is. The posters who you dismissed have been betrayed spouses and know just how bad. Of course you have our sympathy, our support, and yes... our hugs!
But we also know that they longer you do nothing but lick your wounds, the worse it will get.
Can you share?
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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