I bet that you are already headed to the upswing part of the rollercoaster after dipping so low. That's how it works.
How long have you been with BF? I'm not finished your thread yet..about half way there. I bet you set him a massive bar to reach! And so you should have too!
Since January last year. He had a pretty high bar too
Wow do tell about the hidden wayward! How did you spot them? And did you do anything about it or felt it wasn't your place?
I was having a conversation with two friends in a pub and they were discussing an affair that had happened in their workpalce a few years back. My friend said: "The most puzzling thing was what he could possibly have seen in her, she was awful" to which I replied, half-listening and almost automatically: "Oh people do tend to 'affair down'."
A woman sitting near us piped up in a hysterical tone: "What do you mean 'affair down' - what does that mean?" To me, her tone of voice, desperate and offended, was practically an announcement to the room that she was wayward. However no one else seemed to notice.
So I replied: "Oh it's a turn of phrase" and refused to fill the silence that followed. It's not my task to educate her.
So she responded: "Yes but meaning what?"
"Oh you know when you see a tabloid story about affairs, the affair partner is usually..."
"No I don't! I don't read tabloids!"
"Oh, OK."
"Do you mean that when people have an affair, their husband and wife is usually better than they are?"
"Yes that what it measn. Surprised you haven't heard it before."
Then I ignored her but her eyes were wild. I'd see her around the rest of the weekend and she would constantly be scanning my face as though I had a riddle on it. She didn't wear a ring so I would guess she is a mistress waiting on her fellow wayward's empty promises. Poor fool.