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How is Plan B going?

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Just fine no breaches so far. Just chilling with DS and focusing on this 10k in August. Thanks again for being my IM.

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When will you be divorced?

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Originally Posted by Justthe3ofus
When will you be divorced?

Hopefully this fall. Sorry for the late reply busy summer! Dropped 12 LBs and actively training for this half- marathon. Plan B has been �ber quiet. Just being the best father I can be and bettering myself spiritually, mentally, and physically. WW hasn't gotten through the Plan B. I talk with MIL via text and asked her not to pass on messages and news from WW. So far so good...

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How is your son doing? I guess he never sees his mother?
Glad you are keeping busy and good luck on your half-marathon.

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He's doing well grades are awesome and he's very smart. He has his moments when he is mad about his mother. Says things like mom hurts my hurt etc. I just explain that sometimes people do things to hurt others knowingly and unknowingly I also tell him daddy will always be there for him. She hasn't written or sent him anything for Christmas or his birthday. Her lost probably busy catering to POSOM and her renter's relationship. I feel for SS but what can I do?

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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
I feel for SS but what can I do?

There is nothing you can do; you can only take responsibility for your own actions.

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That is true. Had a nice weekend with DS we saw fireworks and had some bouncy house wrestling! He beat me lol.

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Just a small update:

MIL sent me a message saying that she doesn't want me to leave WW and WW is miserable with her "new" life. I guess POSOM isn't all sugar and rainbows. I politely responded to MIL that I do not want to hear any news about WW and to please refrain from passing information or I will be forced to cease talking with her because it is painful to hear about her.


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Your MIL is just concerned about her daughter but her daughter made her bed and STILL lies in it.
The irony is that the MIL probably knows that her daughter is miserable (because she is on the outside looking in); while her daughter doesn't even realize it.

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How's the training going? Have you managed the full distance yet?

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Not yet did about 13 miles with a 1145 min mile average. Doing a half marathon in march and did a 10 mile marathon last month.

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Nice one! Just done 10 tonight myself after some injury! Back on it. Had my share of well dones. But more impressed with myself. I'm sure you will agree it's a good addiction. I've got a 10 mile race in October. Keep this up, London, New York, marathons everywhere!

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I'm impressed! The only running I do is if one of my kids are hurt wink


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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
Not yet did about 13 miles with a 1145 min mile average. Doing a half marathon in march and did a 10 mile marathon last month.

There is only one marathon : 26.2 miles

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Mini marathon then LOL

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But how far could you run this time last year?

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I was running 5 miles daily now I'm up to 6-8 miles daily and 20 miles 3x a week. Starting crossfit next month as well.

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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
I was running 5 miles daily now I'm up to 6-8 miles daily and 20 miles 3x a week. Starting crossfit next month as well.

are you running 60 miles a week?

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Originally Posted by TranquilDark
I was running 5 miles daily now I'm up to 6-8 miles daily and 20 miles 3x a week. Starting crossfit next month as well.

I run 6-8 daily that amount depends on the weather. And Monday Wednesday and Friday I do 10. So that's about 40ish. That 20 was a typo.

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