So glad you made an appearance. Of all the people that could really help StillKicking understand just how perilous his future marriage to Mrs. StillKicking could be if he's not careful it's you, Mozilla.

It's not that Bipolars can't have relationships and must be avoided at all costs....it's that anyone in a relationship with a bipolar must have a firm grasp of the illness and the ramifications to themselves and their loved one (the bipolar).

Your husband has failed to grasp that Mozilla even though he was a registered member here and supposedly read along observing your postings for some time. When you were told you were acting/thinking wayward here by melodylane years ago, instead of getting suspicious your husband came on board and tried to scold us. Little did he or we know at the time but you were actively posting on marriedandcheating dot com or whatever that site is called as Cordelia at the time trolling for married men to "flirt" with which eventually resulted in you cycling down the slippery slope of bipolar hypersexuality into trading pictures and hooking up with men there and apparently on ashley mad dot com (if your janedoe1967 persona on loveshack is to be believed).

IF your husband was monitoring you closely he'd KNOW you were apparently having sex with strangers you met on the internet. He'd know you were posting on a plethora of online forums with multiple stories and back histories. The ones I know about are tawandabelle, luriossi, mozilla, herfuturesbright (on the horror board ma), janedoe1967 and cordelia. I'm sure there are many more. Plus you've written some erotica literature using a pen name as well as a touching story about your first affair and recovery with your husband you wrote under your real name (I actually was quite tearful reading it because the story ends in reconciliation but I've been informed about what I believe was the future of the characters stories whereupon the bipolar wife continues cheating with multiple OM's on the unwitting betrayed husband).

You've taught me a lot about bipolars wayward wives, Mozilla. You really were liked and appreciated here on MB for years as you've been liked other places and forums you've posted on. I sincerely tried to help you and was very forthright with you about the challenges a bipolar faces. You write well and you know how to tow the wayward line in words. The problem is that it was an act. You just liked the ego kibbles and wanted to fit in. You wanted to be perceived as a repentant wayward without actually being one. You wanted to give marital advice and infidelity advice (including bashing MB and this forum for accurately figuring out you were/are still wayward in thought and deed), when you are the least qualified marriage and infidelity expert out there (unless you give advice to someone here like stillkicking trying to reconcile with his wayward bipolar wife...THAT you are an expert on).

Here's some of your best posts from other forums:

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That being said, No, I don't think bipolars HAVE to stay single. It might be a good idea just as it's a great idea for stillkicking to chalk this 1.5 year marriage up to a bad experience and file for divorcing citing his biblical out for adultery. He doesn't HAVE to stay married to her....but if he does, he needs to know from people like me AND YOU that have an understanding of just what he's signing up for and what he needs to do to protect himself AND her from, well, acting like you.

As you said on that flirting site...no one ever judges you as hard as you judge yourself. I in no way believe your life the last 8 years has been fun for you, Mozilla. I do have sympathy and empathy for you plight, but you are very ill and very destructive as a lying wayward mentally ill poster posing as a repentant recovered wayward wife. I know your brain is tricking you into thinking you have important things to say on the subject of infidelity but you don't. Instead you should be focusing on your health and your family and begging your husband again for forgiveness and another chance after you tell him the truth about your activities the last few years.

I'm praying for you Mozilla. I'm exposing you because my wife and I care and if you ARE, in fact, actually judging yourself harshly for your behavior the last few years then I fear, absent coming clean you may just follow through with all the suicide threats you made in 2006-2008. The truth and letting others care for you and hold you accountable so they can help you control your compulsions is the path to avoiding becoming another sad bipolar suicide casualty.

One caveat...I have no idea what the truth actually is when it comes to you. Maybe your persona's, Mozilla, are all made up and you're just an author that researches stories by making up characters and posting on multiple forums.

wowsa! So Mozilla is luriossi?? I thought something was very off with that poster. She only seemed to be defending waywards. And of course that is because SHE IS wayward!!

What are you talking about?

I don't have to explain to you what you already know. But some of us here realized who you were last fall when you started posting under this new alias and assisted you anyway.

When I say "anyway" that's a big thing. You've attacked this forum and the Harley family for years now on several forums mocking the advice and principles and holding MB in contempt for our strong advocacy regarding exposure and helping waywards versus coddling them. We weren't exactly sure why you kept coming back again and again and presumed it was to get help for your struggling marriage after the "serial cheating" via ash madison dot com you described under your janedoe67 posting name.

It appears now you just wanted another back story here in order to put the username in your back pocket and try to come back months later for another round of MB attacks.

You need help. Seek a doctor's attention for your mental illness and stop running around the internet posing as a repentant former recovered wayward wife.

The posters on MB have been nothing but kind to you and you've lied and lied apparently continuing multiple affairs with multiple partners throughout the entire time. You aren't well, Luri. Get help.

I attempted to notify on this post for legal reasons, but it had already been notified. Perhaps it would be wise to remove or edit the post above.

My goodness. I remember her underhanded posts on 15yrs' thread and wondering what her story was. It all makes sense now!

What would you like me to edit, Luri???

My other post earlier mentions your cordelia alias too. Is that something you prefer I keep private for you as well, Herf?

You could start a new thread in say "other topics" so we don't disrupt this posters thread and figure this all out together. I'd like nothing better than an explanation and some honesty. We are very empathetic towards your situation and illness. It explains it. It doesn't excuse it.

I could also bump your last Luriossi (however you spelled it) thread and we could discuss it there.

Be very careful

You are now acknowledging you are, in fact, the poster formerly known as Luriossi aka tawandabelle.

Any other MB aliases we should know about?

So you are denying you are also the alias known on janedoe?

What about Cordelia?

Why should we believe anything you say?

Wow I sure hope you get into a Psychiatrist and get help for your Bipolar. Your poor family. What those kids must be living in??

Here's a couple posts from your Luriossi persona on MB:




Here's a Tawandabelle persona post supposedly made by your husband on 5/11/2011. So sad he didn't know you'd already registered and were trolling for married men at married and flirting dot com:





****caveat. Tawandabelle was not a fake alias. Lurioosi had been so dishonest that she felt the need to take a new name and start over again posting the truth this time...supposedly.

This makes me very sad and I feel kind of stupid now to remember that Lurioosi was one of the FWWs whose posts were inspiring even. I hope she seeks help. Unbelievable.

Just in case Mr. Luri/Herf ever stops by here again I thought I'd add another name to long list of Luri/Herf/tawandabelle/mozilla/janedoe/cordelia aliases attacking MB:


I wonder if the Ashley Madison hack busted herf? I recently saw a post by her saying the AM hackers are partially responsible for exposed AM clients committing suicide. Anytime anywhere someone cheats they run the risk of being exposed, that's a presumed risk by any wayward undertaking to cheat covertly on their spouse, family, vows, and community. If you cheat you better be of sound enough mind to handle getting caught - if not, just don't cheat. You'd think having their secret adulterous lives revealed might actually be a relief (not everyone is a serial cheater and the lifestyle is soul crushing so a way out should be embraced). Further, I bet the hackers saved more lives (think suicides due to guilt from using that website+ suicides by betrayed spouses + HPV/Cervical Cancer + HIV) than ever actually commit suicide as a result of the hack exposure. IMO, the hackers are hero's to betrayed spouses (and former repentant waywards) everywhere. I actually posted on the dark web to the hackers to congratulate them and encourage them to go after the posters on marriedandflirting forum you used to post on.

I know you used to be religious so I'm sure this is all hanging heavily on your conscience. Please get more medical attention for your bi-polar. I can't see how your doctor could possible know about you engaging in ashley madison type affairs and just not see it as anything else. I'd still be consider helping your husband (if you are even still married) but I would be hard pressed to believe anything you say or write to me ever again. But I still wish you well. Your story is just so horrendously sad but I use it as a great example to other couples about the seriousness of accountability and keeping tabs on one another. I still blame your husband for letting it get this far where you're meeting random men on the internet for sex. Known bipolars just shouldn't have unrestricted and unmonitored access to the internet. Your illness explains a lot but it doesn't excuse it.

I don't have anything to add, but I want to thank you, MrW, for your invaluable contribution to this forum.