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Yes, will try that, but I doubt they answer unless they know the caller.
Married 32 years
He 60
She 54
Two well adjusted adult children
2nd grandchild on the way
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OM became CFO of a large multi-national company an as such, they are protective of personal information. No social media that I can find, and other info hard to access. Guess I'll have to "get my deceive on" if I am to make contact. Thanks If needed, you could always have a detective make contact
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FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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SugarCane-Sorry it has been awhile since I posted, but I wanted to respond to your post. What I meant about persistent questioning was that I have to drag everything out of her. Dr Harley's rules say she is supposed to answer all my questions. She has also changed her answers to several questions leaving me unsure of what to believe. I just wish she would volunteer the story rather than making me feel like an inquisitor all the time. Also it would help if the answers were consistent.
Married 32 years
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She 54
Two well adjusted adult children
2nd grandchild on the way
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Norm,
Have you been successful in exposing the affair to the other persons spouse?
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Not yet. FWW monitors texts, emails and calls and is unhappy about my attempts to contact. May require PI services.
Married 32 years
He 60
She 54
Two well adjusted adult children
2nd grandchild on the way
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Not yet. FWW monitors texts, emails and calls and is unhappy about my attempts to contact. May require PI services. You need to expose the affair
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Not yet. FWW monitors texts, emails and calls and is unhappy about my attempts to contact. May require PI services. You need to expose the affair FWW stands for former wayward wife, correct? The fact she is blocking you from contacting the BW of her AP is a wayward behavior. Are you monitoring her texting and calls? If she finds out you contacted the BW will she be mad? That is another red flag as she is protecting her AP's interest and not yours. Does the BW work? You can meet her there, if its too far you can do it via email, or just call despite your WW's misforgivings. Sounds like your fearing her reaction which is normal. Don't operate on fear. If she gets mad about you telling the truth then the affair is still on. If it were over what would she be mad about?
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Last edited by Mizar; 09/25/14 12:16 PM. Reason: Please keep posts on this thread helpful for this poster, rather than speculating on your own situation
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