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dividejim, the key to intimate conversation is the four friends of good conversation that Dr. Harley lists in the Conversation chapter of His Needs Her Needs, and in the "Conversation is Boring" Q&A column on this website. I usually tell men to reread these daily until their wives are in love with them again, and practice each day including the friends and avoiding the enemies.


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So I guess that all of my posts were a complete waste of time since you ignored me. What is the point of posting to you if you ignore the advice? I looked back at your other threads and you just come here, write the same thing and then ignore the advice. My free time is very valuable and I would like to know why we should take our valuable free time to make posts that are ignored.


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Originally Posted by markos
dividejim, the key to intimate conversation is the four friends of good conversation that Dr. Harley lists in the Conversation chapter of His Needs Her Needs, and in the "Conversation is Boring" Q&A column on this website. I usually tell men to reread these daily until their wives are in love with them again, and practice each day including the friends and avoiding the enemies.

I like your answer much better than mine. Did you know you gave him this same advice a few years ago and he never followed it?


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Also, steer clear of the icky suggestion that you need to get a woman's perspective to learn how to talk to your wife. Dr. Harley is GREAT at teaching men how to talk to women.

Speaking of which, are you listening to the radio show every day? Dr. Harley is giving you a free hour of training EVERY. SINGLE. WEEKDAY. Listen to that show consistently enough and you will pick up a lot of what you need to know about how your wife thinks and how to have conversation.


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Jim, did you see my note about emailing Dr Harley? His advice is free and he will send you a free book.

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