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Most of you all don't know me. I haven't posted on here since 2008. Unfortunately, I had to switch from the D/D section of MarriageBuilders to a forum for Young Widows and Widowers.
Now, I am getting remarried. I am doing a quick review of the MB concepts. And as always, I will struggle with Independent Behavior. And after 7 years of being alone, I am really worried that I'll have a big adjustment.
However, I've picked the right man. We're on the same page about relationships and marriage. I've practiced radical honesty, so the surprises should be very minor.
So, for all those who are dating, looking or just jaded--there's hope! It isn't easy or quick, but it is possible to find someone to be your helpmeet.
Divorced.
2 Girls
Remarried 10/11/08
Widowed 11/5/08
Remarrying 12/17/15
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Greengables, awesome to see you! Congratulations! Yes we'll help you adjust 
Me 40, OD 18 and YD 13
Married 15 years, Divorced 10/2010
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Divorced.
2 Girls
Remarried 10/11/08
Widowed 11/5/08
Remarrying 12/17/15
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I've followed some of your stories, but not all.
Will this be your third marriage?
Is he aware of MB?
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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GG,
I was here as well back then, too! Only thing is, I had to change my handle from then, as I could not remember "who I was" back then!
Welcome back, and CONGRATULATIONS!
Once I was BW. Now happily RE-married!
I was there. It's painful. It's hard.
But it's totally doable and worth it.
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I remember you too. Good luck.
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Hi GG! What a nice update from you, glad that things are working out well!
AGG
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I don't know why Marriage Builders popped in my head just now ( I haven't posted or visited since 2010!) and lo and behold, there is AGG and GG. I remember you (both) so well... GG, so glad to know you've remarried. I wish you all happiness. AGG, I've no doubt all is well with your Mrs. Right And I'm happy to report all is well here with me. Remarried 7/09 and still going strong. I even changed careers and my DH and I are business partners. Even if GG and AGG don't see my post, for others out there, you most certainly can survive an affair
DW--BW....separated/divorced since 2003
Re-married 7/09!
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AGG, I've no doubt all is well with your Mrs. Right Sure is . And I'm happy to report all is well here with me. Remarried 7/09 and still going strong. I even changed careers and my DH and I are business partners. That's so great to hear DW! I'm very happy for you! Even if GG and AGG don't see my post, for others out there, you most certainly can survive an affair I did see it, yay! And I went back and looked at some of our old posts, sort of an interesting yet weird journey. Though it all led us to a good place, so that's great! AGG
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GG, I remember you, and I also remember AGG. I took a break of several years and now I pop in to read success stories and struggles. A lot has changed on the Boards.
Belle, Domestic Goddess
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I have not been here in a while either. I remember you guys. For some reason I decided to log in. Older wiser I didn't remember mine either. I used the forgot login link and entered my email address
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Congratulations!! I am so happy for you.
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Congratulations on new life. It's happy to see a happy story. I hope you will adjust well with the new life. You just need a little push. Your would be will help will help with that.
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A lot has changed on the Boards. Ain't that the truth.
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Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.
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A lot has changed on the Boards. Ain't that the truth. Thankfully! Howdy whodat! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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A lot has changed on the Boards. Ain't that the truth. Has it? Same, same. 😢
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Prayers & God Bless!
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