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Wait until he walks in on you!!!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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LOL...right...it's a crazy train...
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WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
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PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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He better not. He no longer has a key...and the RO is still in effect until Feb 10th...he wouldn't dare.
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WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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Wait...do you think he would actually come to my house just because I won't have contact with him?
BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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Wait...do you think he would actually come to my house just because I won't have contact with him? They often do! When they can't get through any other way, they just come in the house!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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OMG. Uninvited..yuck...that would take some true Gaul.
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WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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OMG. Uninvited..yuck...that would take some true Gaul. you are doing better than me Always - I would do anything for my wife to show up at my house ugh
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Well I would love my WH to come to my house...but for the RIGHT reasons...pissed because I won't have contact with him...is not a good reason.
BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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Gallows humor here: I'm trying to keep my WW from LEAVING the house
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Me-BH, 47
Spouse-WW, 47
Married for 18 years
DS, 11
D-Day #1 - November 1998 (7 months after wedding)
False Recovery, 16 years
D-Day #2 - November 2015
WW filed for D - February 2016
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I feel so good not having to worry about IF I get an email from WH...no more anxiety over my phone dinging and wondering what crappy email I'm going to get today. I hoped for some sign of change and never got it...now I don't need to worry and it feels like a weight lifted from me.
BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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I feel so good not having to worry about IF I get an email from WH...no more anxiety over my phone dinging and wondering what crappy email I'm going to get today. I hoped for some sign of change and never got it...now I don't need to worry and it feels like a weight lifted from me. Great job! You're finally on the right path!
Me-BH, 47
Spouse-WW, 47
Married for 18 years
DS, 11
D-Day #1 - November 1998 (7 months after wedding)
False Recovery, 16 years
D-Day #2 - November 2015
WW filed for D - February 2016
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I feel so good not having to worry about IF I get an email from WH...no more anxiety over my phone dinging and wondering what crappy email I'm going to get today. I hoped for some sign of change and never got it...now I don't need to worry and it feels like a weight lifted from me. Exactly and this is why I was pushing so hard to get you in to a dark Plan B. I'm so glad you're starting to feel better.
FWW/BW (me)
WH
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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You're welcome. How are you doing with your self-care?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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Wishing things were different. I'm out doing things and I hate it.
Still confused as to why my WH refuses to use an IM. Thankfully my email blocking seems to be working.
BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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Still confused as to why my WH refuses to use an IM. Thankfully my email blocking seems to be working. They all refuse. They know that they can no longer torture us and it drives them crazy.
3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
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As if an affair and divorce is not torture. How utterly selfish.
BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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So yeah! My WH sent my IM a message saying he was fine with her as IM that he doesn't care...that it's easier. But he still says I can't block his email. But if he's tried sending me stuff I have not received anything and if he really blocked me...he didn't try too hard. It all just seems so juvenile.
BW, me - 44
WH - 47
Married 2.5yrs
EA 6-2015 estimate
PA 9-2015 estimate
D-day 11-22-2015
WH filed divorce 11-23-2015
Exposure 1-10-2016
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But he still says I can't block his email. Who gives a flying flip? Is he your boss?? BTW, inform your IM not to pass on such nonsense to you anymore. You don't need to hear his drama.
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