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I lost my previous post at the preview stage.
My lawyer has written a modifiable settlement agreement for us. I am receiving community property and an alimony buy out.
We have been married 39 years.
Any advice about mod versus non-mod?
BS -me 69 WS - him 68
Married 40 years
OW - "daughter" added to family 1/05 for "Fathering healing" - 26 years younger
EA 1/05 - 12/07 PA 8/07 - 12/07
NC 1/08
DDay March 30, 2008
Separation Feb. 17, 2010 two days before our 33 anniversary
DDs 31, 25
WH served me for divorce Sept. 18, 2014
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You can find your thread by clicking on your posting name and click "user's posts".
I imagine that you've received no replies because you started a new thread and because this is a legal question and not a marriage question. Just guessing...
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Yes, I had clicked in, but I have no experience with that, and it was the only question.
Me 40, OD 18 and YD 13
Married 15 years, Divorced 10/2010
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Is the settlement fair to you? Previously your H was trying to keep everything.
Are you getting a lump sum? What exactly is modifiable about the agreement?
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