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I just got off the phone with the counseler my W and I had before w split. We talked on the phone for 15min and I'm going to see him at 3pm. today. He wants me to ask W if she will go also. i know that she wont, but I will call her and ask her to at least call him. Lord knows she needs someone to help her through this.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<BR>
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Don't "educate" her & tell her she needs help. Just be gracious & ask her if she would go with you.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A>
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That is what I dont want her to think I'm doing. i didnt go to work today so I can go. she is at work so I don't think she will be able to go. I'm scare to ask her any way. She would probably yhimk I'm telling her she is sick, even though sunday when she told me all this she aked me what is wrong with her why does she do this and how can i love her. she know she need some help.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<BR>
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Ask her lovingly....<BR>Let her know you care... <BR>Not that you want to rule her!<P>lovingly ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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I believe will ask her to go all she can do id say no right. if she don't then thats fine. if she does thats good too. If she does go i dont think we should talk about us. just vent alittle bit. I'll let him decied.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<BR>
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Even if she won't go, I think it's great that you are. It will be a big help to you (at least that is what I have found from talking to my therapist). Working on you is the best place to start.
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I want to work on me, but her life is so screwed up roght now I want to help her aslo.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<BR>
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I sent her an e-mail about some buisness I had to do today(counseler). she just sent one back asking what buisnessn So here it goes I'm going to call her and ask if she wants to go.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<BR>
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