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Re: Wife says shes done. Im not. Need help!
Winslow #2884264 07/13/16 01:50 PM
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"1) No one gave me specific instructions as to the only acceptable manner of confronting the OM. I was instructed to run him off and thats what I feel like I did. "

I told you to pay him a visit. A text wouldn't "run off" an 11 yr old girl. Feelings are not truth.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Re: Wife says shes done. Im not. Need help!
SugarCane #2884294 07/14/16 12:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Winslow
1) No one gave me specific instructions as to the only acceptable manner of confronting the OM. I was instructed to run him off and thats what I feel like I did.

Originally Posted by DidntQuit
1. Run off the OM. You hired him, now fire him. (Reread Melody's recent posts and take action. Post when said action is complete.)

Winslow, don't want to kick you when you are down, but please don't bite the hands that feeds you.

Can you see from the quote above how I made a special effort to steer you back to Melody's clear instructions? (You don't need to respond to that.)

I have been in your shoes where I was so emotional that I couldn't think straight. But understand that from my perspective it seems like you are so emotional that you are skimming the points made and applying a defensive filter. That isn't going to help you.


I recommend that you print these posts and highlight any specific advice. Then make your axtion list from those items.

You need clarity and I'm not great at being succinct. Melody sure is though. Thanks goodness for that.
Re: Wife says shes done. Im not. Need help!
DidntQuit #2884295 07/14/16 01:23 AM
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"Axtion" list. Lol.
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