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I don't think it's a good idea to tell him that I have evidence of his cheating. I agree with top rope that it's too early to give myself away and I might need the cameras to protect myself later on. The locks have been changed, but he still has his things here that he will need to come get.
He texted me saying he wants us to go to marriage counseling. He says he'll do anything to make our marriage work, that he doesn't want to lose me.
I've told his family that I caught him again with another woman and that he's still seeing our son's ex-fianc�e. I'm sorry but Toprope didn't give you MB's advice which comes from Dr.Harley. No one is telling you to tell him how you got the evidence just that you HAVE evidence of him sleeping with 2 OW in your house and that you know who they are. You need to inform him of this now.
FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Last edited by Denali; 10/07/16 08:45 PM. Reason: TOS reposting removed post
Fooling people is serious business, but when you fool yourself it Becomes Fatal.
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I told him I have evidence of him cheating with our son's ex-fianc�e after he lied and said it was over and I also brought up the other OW. He said there was no other OW, I told him no point in pretending.
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Are you reading our posts?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Jenn,
I've very recently went through something similar. Take Mel's advice and let your husband and others know that you have concrete evidence that will verify beyond doubt his sexual escapades with two women on the same day.
I'm so very sorry you have to endure this.
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