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I would also highly recommend getting this divorce as quickly as possible so that he doesn't have time to change his mind about the generosity of his agreement. I wager it WILL happen. I don't think he has guilt at all, fueling the agreement. I think he is so wayward minded he just wants you and your son to go away. He knows the quickest way to make that happen is to give you everything you want. I see this happen with people I know, they get to that point they just want to get out and they don't care what they lose in the process. But eventually they start to regret being so generous. You want to close this deal before he gets to that point.
And then I recommend going into a dark Plan B to protect yourself from ever having to hear about his wayward behavior or rambling.
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FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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As heartbreaking as it is, you and your SIL's lives are going to be better after this. Im glad you have each other to commiserate. I hope both of your divorces go smoothly.
BW-27
FWH-31
DS-6
Married several years
D-Day- 11/22/13
Plan A+Exposure
NC+Beginning of Recovery-04/2014
In Recovery and happier and more in love than ever
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