Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 2 1 2
Joined: Mar 2017
Posts: 13
S
SAB2 Offline OP
Junior Member
OP Offline
Junior Member
S
Joined: Mar 2017
Posts: 13
yes, still no answer

Joined: Nov 2010
Posts: 20,435
Likes: 4
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Nov 2010
Posts: 20,435
Likes: 4
Originally Posted by SAB2
yes, still no answer
Have notified the MODS to ask them to forward your email to the Harleys?


FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



Joined: Sep 2008
Posts: 9,533
Likes: 9
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Sep 2008
Posts: 9,533
Likes: 9
Originally Posted by SAB2
Did anybody hear the show buildsherhouse is talking about? Could really use the help. What did the Harleys say?
I didn't hear a show that had a problem that sounded like yours. However, I don't think that there is a Marriage Builders answer, as such, to your dilemma. You are being asked to make a straightforward choice between accepting both of them or neither of them, and only you know which of those two things you are prepared to do. I don't think that there is a right or wrong, or a Harley view, about either of them.

You did say that your health is affected by being around this man, so maybe you should tell your daughter that contact with her husband would have to be limited to very special occasions, if at all.

I'm sure that your daughter is aware that this serial cheat, with whom she had an affair herself, is a very risky proposition. You'll just have to hope that she understands the need for a very transparent marriage, with extreme extraordinary precautions.


BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
Joined: Nov 2010
Posts: 20,435
Likes: 4
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Nov 2010
Posts: 20,435
Likes: 4
Is this your question?
Radio Clip of SAB2's Email


FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



Joined: Mar 2017
Posts: 13
S
SAB2 Offline OP
Junior Member
OP Offline
Junior Member
S
Joined: Mar 2017
Posts: 13
Yes, the Harleys answered my question. I appreciate you finding it for me.
As they suggested, I will let you know what happens.
THANK YOU.

Joined: Sep 2008
Posts: 9,533
Likes: 9
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Sep 2008
Posts: 9,533
Likes: 9
What path do you think you are going to take?


BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
Joined: Aug 2008
Posts: 571
K
Member
Offline
Member
K
Joined: Aug 2008
Posts: 571
That was an interesting segment.

Page 2 of 2 1 2

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 845 guests, and 50 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
SadNewYorker, Jay Handlooms, GrenHeil, daveamec, janyline
71,836 Registered Users
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 1995-2019, Marriage Builders®. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5