I already posted my story on the D/D forum, but I just wanted to thank everyone for your support. H moved OW into the house the day after I left. They've been partying steadily for almost 2 weeks now. I went back to my lawyer and will be filing for divorce. Today I got a restraining order to prevent H from coming to our house or our business. I got a police escort to kick OW out of the house, and what an attitude she had, especially since H was not here to help her. <P>The house was trashed, beer cans, bottles, and cartons everywhere and we found so much drugs and drug paraphenalia, including "crank" and syringes, we obviously took them by surprise! I am so devastated. H was addict/alcoholic when I met him and got sober after 8 long, difficult years. He was sober for almost 10 years befe starting to drink about 18 months ago, I think.

I hope and pray you have loads of friends and family around to support you!! I'll be thinking of you.

What a terrible scene you must have had to cope with - but you DID cope. Stay strong, I'll be thinking of you and sending you my wishes for a much better future. I'm sure you're doing the right thing. <BR>(((((hugs))))), Paint

I'll be praying for you and your family. I know this is devastating for you, but you are doing the right thing by standing up for your family.

LST,<BR>Oh, hon, I have been wondering about you - I am so sorry it has come to this! How awful for you to walk into such a scene!!! Yet, I hope it reinforced that you are doing the right thing, no matter how hard it is!!! Your H has evidently fallen into a black hole; til he realizes this and seeks help, there is nothing for you to do. We all see that he has "chosen" trash right now; yet, he is addicted. This isn't about you - he is lost. You deserve better!! Oh, please keep in touch with me - you will be in my thoughts and prayers!!! You hung in there and tried so hard - again, he is lost.<BR>Hugs and prayers,<BR>S