Weekends just aren't the same. No plans really.

Hey cybil. Sorry you're bored. What's up?

I'm here too, just got home from looking at mobile homes need a place to live, living with folks isn't so grand, want something of my own. Am so tired though, and don't play scrabble like some others are doing!<P>Dawn

hey daybreak -<BR>What part of the country are you looking for mobile homes? Just curious.<BR>Debbie<BR>

Not really doing much of anything. catching up some of the others posts today. Kids are in bed sleeping. <BR>cybil

I rented that movie The "Mexican" with Brad Pitt and Julie Roberts tonight. H and I watched a little bit of it but we just couldn't get into it. Anyone see it?<BR>C

I should probably be happy that WS is home sleeping on the couch but I'm not. He had an A that as near as I can figure ended around last November. But he won't sleep with me. I don't know what is worse - having them gone, or having them here not wanting you. What's you situation?

eyeswideopen----Western South Dakota, Black Hills area, i just got back abut a week and a half ago, late Monday the 13th and had a job and was at work on friday the 17th, so haven't had much time to look, hope to get out some tomorrow.<BR>Why? Where are you?<P>Dawn

Hi daybreak - <BR>just curious - I'm in Northern Virginia - DC country - land of WAT (if you haven't kept up with the story, i think he really could use some more support). Wow- Black Hills huh? That sounds so cool. I'd love to be out there.

eyeswideopen---It does suck to have H on couch, but you may get a kick out of this my H has had an EA for about 2 years, d-day wa Jan 27, 01. Had seen her that week, no PA though. Drove with me and 2 of 3 kids from VA to SD then turned around and drove to FL and is sleeping on her couch. Go figure that one out!!

H moved out 5mos.ago now it's just me and the kids S17, D11, D7. H comes by alot on the weekends sometimes we do things together and sometimes he just does things with the kids all depends on his mood. He denies having an A says they are only friends c0-worker she's happily married so she says but they talk on the phone alot. Wish he could talk to me like that.

Are you sure he's on her couch? (I think are messages are overlapping) Oh, and I'm just curious, where's the third kid?

I would love for my H to be sleeping on the couch right now it would actually be a pleasant surprise to wake up and find him here.

cybil--I know what you mean H says that he can say things to her and show her love and is more romantic then he ever was with me. But boy did I get some beautiful cards, he took great care in picking them out. I did try snooping just so I could see what kinds of things these were that he could say or what it is they talked about.

hey ladies.. sorry to interrupt.. but there's a chat feature in the scrabble room. You can always join us if you want to.<P>Hope to see you there!<P>Karen<BR>

Oh Cybil - that sucks. But atleast it seems that you aren't still supporting him. I feel so used. He doesn't contribute to our banking account and I pay all the bills and he still sleeps on the couch. Granted, at the moment, I have horrendous poison oak and look awful, he has made no move to fix things. (I mean because of the poison oak - I'm petite and I think fairly attractive (heck - I do have men hitting on me fairly regularly which I (apparantly stubidly) have given the heave-ho)). He expects for me to take care of him and I keep doing it! WHY!!!@!

I can't believe the summer is over. My kids have 1 more week of summer vacation. I hate getting back into that routine. Lunches, backpacks all that fun stuff! Before we know it winter will be here yuk!<BR>C

Karen - what is the chat room address?

yes, I am sure that he is on her couch as he called me the other night and I made comment that it was quite and he said yeah her and her sister are sharing the room and I am sleeping on the couch, I figured I should ask, knew that the answer would probably hurt, but asked anyway.<P>I haven't asked yet if his ring is still on though, made a comment to daughter the other day so she will probably ask.<P>I've told the story before, but I asked one time why he still had ring on and he said "we are still married" I said "yeah so?" didn't answer. Left the gold heart from his necklace in jewelery box later and said "didn't want hime wearing the ring that I probably didn't want him wearing the heart either" said that he had to do what he wanted.<P>It's taking a while on my end as this is not a computer that I am use to yet. Sorry!!!<P>3 kid 19 yo son is riding greyhound from VA through DC tomorrow will get here Monday. Made comment that the bus accident earlier this week was scarry and H said I seen them putiing the bus up on the Flatbed semi as he was going by.<P>Dawn

I wish my H would just admit to the A says he's not having an EA or PA but he's still not home and still not willing to commit to working on our M either! <BR>C