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Okay, Should I call him on his cell phone and see what his mood is or should I just leave things the way they are? I'm sitting here trying to find all these excuses to call and I don't know if its the right thing to do, will that make things worse or is it something he would expect me to do? any advice? Sally
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I think you should call him to apologize for your outburst.<P>No BUTS.<P>Do not do the "I'm sorry, BUT you had it coming for this reason...." (the kids were disappointed, you work too much etc)<P>Just say I really regret the things I said to you and I am sorry.<P>
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Hi Lexxxy, I called and apoligized for the outburst no Buts. It was difficult because usually with me there are Buts. Thank you for getting back to me so fast I was going crazy here and my computer is taking so long to respond. He was very nice and calm and said that I am making the situation worse, when i say things like that, and that he would spend time with the kids on Friday he would be off. So I said ok fine I will let the kids know. And that was the end of the conversation we said goodbye. So I feel much better now, Thank you so much for the good advice. love Sally
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