SNL,<p>I just needed to let you know how sorry I am for the way I posted to you last week. I was responding on the string of WS psychology and I had a really bad day.<p>I took out anger and frustrations that are directed to my WS on you and that was wrong. You have been doing your best to try and expain your own feelings and thought process during a difficult time in your life and I had no right to direct my vent at you.<p>Whereas this board is a place to vent our frustrations at times, those frustrations should not be directed at any individual on this board. <p>My comments to you were inappropriate and I apologize. No one here should be made to feel attacked. <p>I applaud your restraint in not responding to me in kind. You took the high road and simply chose to ignore my emotional tirade. Thank You.<p>Again, I am sorry. I do read your posts with intrest and appreciate your honesty in discussing the process you are going through. Keep it up.<p>Needing

Thank-you needing, appreciate that. I am well aware of the emotional turmoil here (have plenty of my own), and don't really think anyone means me any real illwill. I don't mind being the occassional focus of displaced anger to someones ws (not that I am a masochist or anything), if it helps them release some pressure that may otherwise have contributed to LB'ing. And it is good for me to be aware of how bs feel also. In the long run we (humans) are all in this (life) together. I know how frustrating it must be when ones ws will not listen to them, so I figure I can listen instead, and that is a little better than just venting into the wind maybe. And believe it or not, I do not blow anyone off, I look at and contemplate whatever is written to me, the good the bad, and the ugly. There has only been one poster I ignored, and she is long gone. Good luck to you too.