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#2942080 01/09/03 06:45 PM
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Hello all,
I just need to know a way to deal with my H's two OC. The story goes that for the past three years he has lied to me about having these kids and now 3 months ago, he told me the whole story. I don't know how to live with him with all of this. Him and I don't have any kids together. He doesn't want to be with any one of these women either. I just don't know how people deal with this.
Help,
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Hello f1,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I just need to know a way to deal with my H's two OC. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you. Does your H have contact with these children? It is his responsibility to support them. They were brought into this world through no fault of their own. If you have it in you please do not take his bad decisions out on the children.

I suggest you read all you can from the main site. Read all the articles, read them again. Perhaps set up a session with the Harleys'

Continue to post here for support and advice. Vent when you need to we understand your frustrations.

Others will be along with more(and better)advice. If you don't get a reply right away don't give up or get discouraged. Just bump up your post by replying to yourself. This will keep it near the top of page 1 where more people will see it and respond. Weekends are the slowest times around here so keep that in mind.

Welcome to MBers. I am so very sorry you have need to be here.

Praying for your family.

jd


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