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I have not heard from my H since yesterday afternoon. I hate not talking to him everyday while he is living with ow. I will not call her house. For some reason he does not show her his cell phone in front of her so it is hidden in his truck somewhere. To top it off Tuesday, March 4th will be our 14th wedding anniversary, I probably won't see him then either.
Hopefully today (Sunday) my H will at least call the kids and see them. They miss him even though they say they don't want to or care to talk or see him. They say that is all he used to do was yell anyway, and it is quite without him here.
But what do you do when it is your anniversary and he is living with the ow and you are still legally married.
Then the OW's ex keeps on asking me to go up his house and I don't want a relationship with him.
Yes I made my mistakes down the road, but I know I love my husband and no one can ever take his place.
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i can totally relate to you. i am so sorry. i have tried to IM you on msn messenger. i would really love to talk w/ya.
my wh is living w/the ow who is 22. it kills me.
he wants to go over divorce kit papers. the kind you can buy for uncontested divorces!
write me
kuljey@aol.com
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Well just an update, my H came to the house at 11:15 on Sunday, not to see the kids (they were at their grandparents), but asked for money so he can go out and watch the races. My younger son got dropped off by my father while my H was here and all my H said to him was hi dude.
His gf lost her job and my H hasn't been working since December when we were in a car accident, so the both of them do nothing all day, but lounge around and go out drinking. Nice life huh? To top it off he only saw his kids 3 times in the month of February and does not call them.
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hopefully, you didn't give him any money, Goldie. He should be giving you money to support those kids.
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