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kuljey: Yeah, why? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> It reads pretty funny from over here! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> But seriously, you're probably mad because you hate the nonsense. This behavior makes your stbxh seem like an idiot. But it is fog. Take care, -2long
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Affairs usually end around 6 months after discovery.
Your h's affair is just about on schedule.
<small>[ September 02, 2003, 05:36 PM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>
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today is my anniversary. 7 yrs. we are divorcing and he is living w/ow. i am doing so-so, better than i expected. but, it still is my legal marriage anniversary. HOW DO I HANDLE THE DAY! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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So how did you handle the day?
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hello all. i am now officially divorced. my anniversary was sad. i kept busy w/the boyfriend. i am not doing well right now, was broken into today. i am behind on my house pmt from last month, my boyfriend worked yesterday to make cash to help me pay it, it was taken. my girls grandfather had given them 100 each for their birthdays recently and i had it in my underwear drawer for them, gone! they took my camcorder (with a tape w/my youngest daughters 6th birthday) and my digital camera (the disk inside was full and it had TONS AND TONS of pictures!) <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
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I'm so sorry for your trouble, Kuljey.
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kuljey:
I'm so sorry 2 hear about the breakin! I hope nobody was home when it happened. Do you have insurance?
Please take care,
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I'm sorry to hear about the break in.
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thankfully, no one was home when it happened. usually my stepdaughter is home, coincidentaly she was w/her grandfather (xhs dad.) she said that her dad must not have been busy cuz he called them ALL DAY. ...strange. yes i have insurance, such a hassel and i just want my video tapes that were in the camcorder bag back and the disk from my digital camera...likely to NOT be ever found! aarrghh! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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Hey kuljey,
I'm kinda curious about child custody in your divorce.
What about your step-daughter? Did you end up with custody? I don't see a court giving step-mom custody over both parents.
Or was it just not even addressed and she just lives with you?
Are you getting child support for her?
<small>[ October 27, 2003, 05:10 PM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>
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Thanks for askin--well i have joint custody..yep joint custody. Her mother is in parts unknown and that part was just barely touched on. Yes i get child support from him for her. I have the physical custody of the girls.
He had them overnite last weekend, he took them to a casino/hotel. He went w/his OW and her 15 yr old brother--he LEFT THEM w/this boy so they could go party. Nothing bad happened, but i am just angry as all HECK! We have mediation w/the court clinic 12-1, he agreed he needs supervised visitation..but also feels that him and his OW cant do as much when he has them for a whole weekend. Didnt last for long.
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