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On a somewhat lighter note, can anybody point me to a list of the abbreviations used in these forums? Here I am reading information that I hope will help me when I come upon a two letter abbreviation that leaves me wondering what it means. In some strange way I find this funny and got a good laugh out of it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> One of the few I have had in weeks. But, please, I must know what they mean.

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Here's a few of the most commonly used abbreviations:

BS = Betrayed Spouse (gender neutral). Variations include BH (male BS) and BW(female BS).

WS = Wayward Spouse - The Unfaithful Spouse (gender neutral). Variations include WH (male WS) and WW(female WS).

OP = Other Person - The Lover (gender neutral). Variations include OM(male OP) and OW(female OP).

A = Affair (generic) - May describe an EA, PA or a combination of both.

EA = Emotional Affair - Affair not involving any kind of physical or sexual contact with the OP.

PA = Physical Affair - Affair involving sexual contact with the OP.

M = Marriage.

MC = Marriage Counselor(Counseling).

IC = Individual Counselor(Counseling).

OC = Other Child - A child born from an affair (biological parents are the WS and the OP).

D = Daughter.

S = Son.

IL = In Law(s). Variations include MIL(mother IL), FIL(father IL), BIL(brother IL), and SIL(sister IL).

There are probably more but these are the ones you are most likely to encounter the most.


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