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Keepmvn4wrd
Was reading some of your posts, or I thought it was some of your posts, and you had a link in the body of the post that took one to a relatively lenthy post by someone named "Carol" something or other - maybe completely wrong about name. Anyway she had a series of posts refering to her WH coming back to her and she had been specifically coached by someone using the "I think your right our marriage is over and I'm moving on with my life" philosophy.
Anyway I looked but can't seem to find it and was wondering if you remember
Thanks
DD
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DD,
Yes, of course I remember.........
Carolkh was her display name and her member
# was 12562... look for the thread that was
titled... "Hey Carolkh ,Can you elaborate on
your story?
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Thanks Km4 - got it but might be too late. WW served me DV papers today. See plan A/B post.
DD
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Thanks Km4 - got it but might be too late. WW served me DV papers today.
No, it is not too late. You are forgetting that
there are 2 parts to a divorce...
1) the physical or actual divorce itself
2) the emotional divorce... the one she has not
gone through yet, which she will deal with at a
later date as you are now....
If you handle this correctly, then I can guarantee
you that she will cycle back, but only if you
handle it correctly.....
I will jump over to your post and examine what
you have done to this point, and then give you
some pointers that WORK.. Read over again and look
in depth what Carolkh did to get her husband to
turn around. Once you see what really works the
best, and then apply it CONSISTENTLY, you will
begin to notice the WS gradually pursuing YOU.
Good luck..
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Keepmvn4wrd
Thank you. I'm pretty desperate at this time as I see in the DV papers she wants primary custody of my D's and they are what keep my head above water now.
Re-reading Carolkh now
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DD,
Hey, if you give me your email address, then I
will forward you an email I received today from
another poster who said he finally stopped
listening to everyone else and then followed my
advice to the T..... His wife just asked him if
SHE could come back... He said he couldn't believe
that what I told him would work until he acutally DID it.... He finally stopped listening to what others were telling him he said because it basically just was not working.. He said what I told him worked like magic, and worked FAST..
(of course I already knew it would)
This isn't to give myself a pat on the back, but
I really do know what works the best and he is
the 2nd person in the last week that I have seen
a relationship saved by doing a couple of things that you just will not see advised on here.
Give me your email and I will forward his story to you..
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Keepmvn4wrd
Glad to give you my e-mail. I see no hope at this time and will try anything.
layback85@yahoo.com
Thanks
DD
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