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Wish me luck. I am scared.<P>Tested for HIV and STD's.
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We'll be here for you when you get back.<P>------------------<BR>Husband2You<BR>*****<BR>Don't make me promises <BR>Baby you never did know how to keep them well <BR>I've had the rest of you <BR>Now I want the best of you <BR>It's time for show and tell<P>'All or Nothing' © 2001 O-Town
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Thinking of you!! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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I know you won't have results for a while, as I've done this myself. Sucks doesn't it? But how are you doing this evening? Worried about you.. As I said in other thread I am home tonight and would love if you would email me I would love to talk to you. scaredinny@hotmail.com<P>
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It was icky. I won't get results for another week. I should be fine, but you never know... Then I need to get tested in another 6 months to be sure.<P>The worst is just the way I feel inside, emotionally.
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I have to go do it again too. Have been putting it off. Since new OW has such a great sex drive according to H, I wonder how many other pilots she has sleeped with. <P>It is not a pleasant experience...hope it went well for you.
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HI HBH, yeah, getting tested does suck. Doesnt hurt physically but it can wear on you emotionally. <BR>Try not to let this become part of your daily thought process for the next 6 mos to a yr. <BR>I know it is hard, been there. Keep your chin up, keep a positive attitude-your body will thank you for it.
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How did this go?<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>*****<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·
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Thanks for asking!!<P>Actually, funny you should ask. My H was at the house when the doctor's office called (both times - results for 2 different tests). Both times they left a message on the answering machine, and both times my H heard them say that the results were negative.<P>The funny thing is that he was adamant about how he "checked things out" first and that I was fine and it was silly to get tested. But, you should have seen the look on his face when he heard the doctor.<P>Sheer terror as he realized who it was followed by an extreme sigh of relief when he heard the word negative...<P>Guess he didn't check things out as well as he thought, otherwise he wouldn't have had that type of reaction, huh?
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Ya know, ok, its stupid but...<P>My H's OW was an OB nurse. She actually MADE him go get tested before they slept together. His and Hers blood and STD tests...aint that just sweet?<P>You would think that I would feel relieved that they were responsible. <P>It just hurt even worse knowing that they didnt just fall together in the heat of passion...they were pretty darn cold blooded about it.<P>Ick. Ick. Ick.<P>I still went and got tested. I was 3 months pregnant, what a depressing thing to do.<P>I hope your tests turn out ok!<P>------------------<BR><I>Pain is a given, misery is optional.</I>
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