Okay..<BR>In the inviting thread I made on August 30th<P>Topic: If your L U R K I N G . . . Its OKAY... Please read!<BR>( <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/012174.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/012174.html</A> )<P>I posted I asked the lurkers to come out and say hello. I knew that there were going to be many people say hi.. and there are probably a couple of dozen more still lurking. But for now.. I'm cutting and pasting the New Members situation here.. for help from the MBer's.<P>Although I am strong and determined to help each and everyone of these new people.. I can't do it all on my own.<P>Some of us have the capability to 'coach' these new people for a few days to get them into the MB spirit. I am calling on all of you MBers for help.<P>I titled this: New Memeber: gottruth? [Original Post] Coaching Request.<P>Title denotes that this is a new member.<BR>Their name<BR>their original post quoted<BR>and <BR>a coaching request from the OT (Ole Time) Members.<P>So this is where you OT members come in. I suggesting a new process here.. <P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><BR>H2U What a lovely post!!!!!!!!!!! I lurk everyday and follow many of the MB storys, yours also H2U. I don't post because it is my daughter who is involved with a MM. I have used many of the MB principals on her. It is I, her mother, she uses to blame and rationalize her actions. So with a session with Jenifer Harley Chambers and the books His Needs Her Needs and Love Busters, My husband and I have been changing our ways: with eachother and with her. Sence we have told her clearly how we feel and gotten her in to counseling there is nothing left but to love her back to reality. Believe it or not we think that it is working. She has taken a great job that not only keeps her busy but moved her about 45min away from him=(morman bishop with 4 small children knows just how to keep her sucked in, a$$ hole). I would love for her to come on this board and read, she would then realize that her affair is like all the others BUT she thinks that hers is unique and "special" and that I just don't understand SO we continue to parent in plan A. <BR>Sometimes when I read I would like to respond but I see the wisdom on this board and can hardly believe what I read. I hope that many of you someday realize that it is God who is speaking through you and the rest of us soak it up like a sponge. Once I read something WAT said about this stuff being used on other people, co workers friends children etc. so that is how we decided to use it on our daughter. <BR>Thanks so much for the sensitive post.I sure wish I could use spell check when posting so you hit the nail on the head when you said don't worry about spelling etc. Thanks<BR>------------------<BR>Marry<BR><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>So who is going start off Coaching this New Member?<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P>Husband2You<BR>*****<BR>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···<P>· E-mail: husband2you@petroleum.org · ICQ: 1206499 · Formerly: E m p t y ·<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>*****<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·

How refreshing to see parents of betrayed and wayward children come to this site in order to become better educated in the reasonings behind such behavior. I applaud the efforts of all Moms, Dads, Aunts, Uncles, etc. who are interested in the well-being of their families whose relationship problems interfere with "normal" lifestyles.<P>Please post more often <P>------------------<BR><B>Time heals all wounds as long as you DON'T pick at them!</B>

H2Y Boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you amaze me. You are a single parent without a job, and yet you have such compassion for others who need help. I've seen how you bring this board to life and get things started. I wish I could get you a job!!!!!!!!! You would make a great manager or counselor or crew director or what ever you want to be. <BR>You are one of Gods people and he smiles on you H2Y.<P>------------------<BR>Marry