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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by findingmywayback:
<strong>I don't want to say it is for sure her, but the stories are very similar... just a hunch.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>I read some of the posts over there and I dont see anything that stands out... other then it looks like they are having some troubles. I dont think it is the same person, but I could be wrong.

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> ANNA said:How in the world do these threads resurrect? Was there something I missed? I admit I am not doing a good job reading the boards lately.<p><hr></blockquote><p>This thread is 1 1/2 months old legitimately started by justthewife, and was bumped by njrgopittsonlygirl without any explanation. That's what Boaz pointed out in his/her post. <p>I think there are some that want to beat a dead horse and I think many here are really getting tired of it. I know I am.

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Want2FixIt:
<strong><p>This thread is 1 1/2 months old legitimately started by justthewife, and was bumped by njrgopittsonlygirl without any explanation. That's what Boaz pointed out in his/her post. <p>I think there are some that want to beat a dead horse and I think many here are really getting tired of it. I know I am.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>AH... Now I get it... [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] okay, so it takes me a minute... what can I say?! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] I didnt notice that date, glad you pointed it out.<p>[ May 26, 2002: Message edited by: always confused ]</p>

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You know... I could very well be wrong... it doesn't matter. Forget I asked.

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Thanks Boaz for that clarification.<p>I missed the bump that NJ did. I do have a suggestion for you NJ. Instead of resurrecting someone's dead thread, perhaps it would be a better choice to start your own thread if you have concerns. <p>Take care,<p>ANNA

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IS there any question left as to who NJ is and what she is about?<p>Jan

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The Post may have been bumped due to me. I pasted it to say that the current debate raised by heidi was no different. The wording was different but the topic was not. <p>This same Elizabeth was tellng Heidi she's not welcome on these boards and the moderator should kick her out. It didn't make any sense. So I think NJ was trying to show that there was a very big wrong done here and she's feeling like some of you owe Heidi an apology for being so harsh and maybe not allowing her to correct herself??<p>It's just a thought...but NJ seems very hurt by the idea that only certain ways of speaking to certain friends is tolerated. It certainly seems that way from her posts. <p>I know if I raised an idea and I was told I didn't have a right to? I wouldn't stay here and be told how to think. I would want to know why there was a disagreement and try to solve it. I don't see any solution to this. As long as some will be forceful and cruel people will continue to leave.<p>It just doesn't make sense?? [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by seekingjoy2:
<strong>IS there any question left as to who NJ is and what she is about?<p>Jan</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Why do you find it important to go on a witch hunt? Does this make you sleep better at night? Does it really affect you so deeply? Why do you think that is? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by starknight:
<strong><p>Why do you find it important to go on a witch hunt? Does this make you sleep better at night? Does it really affect you so deeply? Why do you think that is? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] </strong><hr></blockquote><p>You've posted 4 times and you are asking me why I find it important to go on a witch hunt?<p>Are you answering the question for nj? Why do you think that is? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Are you a mind reader - you can answer for everyone else? [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Jan

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Starknight to the rescue? Hmmm... [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

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Originally posted by starknight:
<strong>The Post may have been bumped due to me. I pasted it to say that the current debate raised by heidi was no different. The wording was different but the topic was not. </strong><p>Are you communicating with nj off the board? Or just reading her mind through the MB annonymous forum?<p><strong>This same Elizabeth was tellng Heidi she's not welcome on these boards and the moderator should kick her out. It didn't make any sense. So I think NJ was trying to show that there was a very big wrong done here and she's feeling like some of you owe Heidi an apology for being so harsh and maybe not allowing her to correct herself??</strong><p>Does nj no longer have a voice? Again --- are you just reading her mind over the MB forum? What's with the defense --- Heide defends nj - who defends Heide, and both are defended by Starknight? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] <p><strong>It's just a thought...but NJ seems very hurt by the idea that only certain ways of speaking to certain friends is tolerated. It certainly seems that way from her posts. </strong><p>Huh?<p><strong>I know if I raised an idea and I was told I didn't have a right to? I wouldn't stay here and be told how to think.</strong><p>Wait. Are you thinking for yourself this time? or nj? or Heide?<p> <strong>I would want to know why there was a disagreement and try to solve it. I don't see any solution to this. As long as some will be forceful and cruel people will continue to leave.</strong><p>Can you give us a link where this is happening? I haven't noticed it on the boards - and I tend to be here a lot these days... It passes the time while my computer processes orders. <p><strong>It just doesn't make sense?? [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] </strong><p>I fully agree --- it's pretty confusing trying to figure out who is 'thinking' for whom? HUMMMMMMM kinda makes you wander what's going on out there? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Jan

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You'll forgive me, I'm sure, if I lock this thread. <p>Before Elizabeth went out of town, she wrote to me to thank me for my help, and I believe that the intent of this thread is now moot.<p>I'm going to make a judgement call and say it's time to put this nugget to rest. <p>AGAIN, ALL ARE WELCOME TO POST AT MB, AS LONG AS THEY COMPLY WITH THE AGREEMENT WHICH WAS A PART OF THE REGISTRATION PROCESS (read: ALL who register MUST agree).<p>[ May 26, 2002: Message edited by: Boaz ]</p>

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