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Hi Folks,
I am in the down feelings again, I am in the office at work "crying in my desk" I miss my wife and daughter, I just hate being alone, I just want to say I am going crazy.
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i feel for ya
i dont have any advice (or i would use it on me too) for you, god knows i have sat here at my desk balling like a baby.
just go to the bathroom lock the door and let it out. i dont know why but i feel better after that. cold water on the face helps too.
good luck
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sorry for your pain.
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We were wondering where were you last night at DV Care ?. At this point I really think you should get AD med.
BTW: Thanks for the BDay card. -rh-
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Been there and done that, did it today at one point.
I feel the pain and hurt inside of you, keep strong.
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it's tough , but every day gets a tiny bit better
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((hug)) I'm there myself today.
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Yup been there too, just take comfort that there are many here that have gone/ are going through your pain and that it WILL get better.
Also know that the only love you can count on is love of yourself, your kids, and God.
Keep your head high in the fact that you are a strong, moral, father. I always find that concentrating on a task makes it easier. So pull open another browser and start reading on news, or your new hobby that your going to pick up with your kid.
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Hello, just wanted to say a lot (probably all <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> ) of us have been there....it will pass.
It will. It hurts and it absolutely sucks, but this too shall pass.
Anti D's aren't a bad idea. I'd say do it to get you over the hump. I took them for too long and found myself almost numb. Just came off them.
Sorry you are so down, you have every right to feel that way. It is a daily battle to kick ourselves in the behind and be so strong. Sometimes we need a down day too. But, force yourself to make tomorrow better.
You're not alone. It is a very tough time of year too.
Take care.
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Hang in there....I have cried almost every day for the last 5 weeks.....this is despite me not crying for probably the last 5 years. Kinda like a floodgate has opened within me. I have to keep telling myself - I will "win" either way this ends up - I will heal myself, grow closer to God, and get counseling & deal with my issues....which will make me a better person whether or not my WW decides to stay or go. I am working on being thankful for this opportunity for a change in perspective....I am not sure that anything less would have gotten me off my a$$ and into counseling....
Hope this helps -
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I am trying to fight this down feeling on New Years day, I dont want to be DOWN for the whole year of 2005. I can fight this it's only few hours away I am lifting weights in the rain in san francisco in my back yard. I will get through this.
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL... We can make this, if you think you are down like me, You can do it.
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{{hatelove}},
I am a year+ past this and it IS better for me,much.So hang in there ok?! You will get there too.Keep busy until the feeling passes or at least get's a little better.Wait for that upswing on the coaster.
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I am getting there UPS feelings is coming up all I can think of right now is I am going to be look good this coming new year. Body building and makes me feel good about my self. Happy New Year everyone
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