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Thank you for this response. I think you hit the nail on the head.

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I�m not sure how or why it was posted under this thread. I am not tech savvy...new to the forum and trying to figure it out. Sorry for butting in.

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Originally Posted by LeizleK
I�m not sure how or why it was posted under this thread. I am not tech savvy...new to the forum and trying to figure it out. Sorry for butting in.

The moderators moved your post and it's responses to your own thread. Did you read them? You got some really good advice and I would encourage you to read and respond to the people who took their time to post. smile


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Are you going to put spyware on his devices?


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1. Give him one last warning--don't whine, just state your position--and then quietly put spyware on his devices. If you find he is--let's call this what it is--surfing porn, leave him.

2. He is browbeating, shaming, and goading you into questioning yourself and your reactions. There is nothing wrong with you. He is abusing you--gaslighting you--and you need to call him on it. You have a right to feel what you feel and to react how you react.

Been there, done that. Just stop.

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Thanks for the input everyone. Installed spyware on his device, may add a second device as well. Unfortunately, I it has to be �backed up to iCloud� before I can see what is happening. He has a knack for not backing up as often as I would like.
I will post once I find out more.

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