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OMG, got a text from the OMW that said, "I trust OM he is not and hasn't continued the relationship."
Wow. They have effectively gaslighted her. What are you going to do about it? Finally wake up and contact both the OM and OMWs families that I can reach. Nope, you need to get the evidence. Without fresh evidence, you MISSED the opportunity to expose to his family and friends. That ship has sailed. I have copies of texts wherein my wife talks about the OM (like the one from a week ago with her friend), of her current writing, and I can check the cell phone account text log to confirm date and times of texts. I also have her visiting the OM at work weeks ago. Isn't that enough to go to the families?
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I have copies of texts wherein my wife talks about the OM (like the one from a week ago with her friend), of her current writing, and I can check the cell phone account text log to confirm date and times of texts. I also have her visiting the OM at work weeks ago.
Isn't that enough to go to the families? So the OM can just say: "yes we had an inappropriate relationship but we ended it. Her crazy, psychotic husband won't move on." I can check the cell phone account text log to confirm date and times of texts. You haven't been checking this?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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You haven't been checking this? The cell phone account, I have, but online the text log shows up with each billing statement. So, for example, right now, I can only see between November 3 and December 3. I won't see December 4 on until the January bill is posted. I've checked with our carrier, but they confirmed that I can only view through the last day of the last billion period.
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