Obviously, my husband is a pilot (hence the nickname). I had a thought today and attempted to act on it, but now wonder if it is such a good idea to try again.<BR>Through the years, my husband has mentioned affairs that other members of the crew he may be flying with are involved in. Just recently, he mentioned that the engineer he is currently flying with was also discovered in an affair by his wife. I asked him if I could call her to talk to her about the recovery of her marriage and maybe get some tips on how to rebuild the trust. His response was that that just would not be appropriate, even to ask the engineers permission first. He really gave no good explanation. I got to thinking. Because pilots often live away from the airline base, few wives of pilots know each other. In other occupations, wives are at least familiar with not only the people their husbands work with, but also the families of the people their husbands work with. In large airlines pilots rarely work with the people three months in a row, and may never even see them again. However, as evidenced by the loose tongue of my husband, many other wives must be aware of infidelities of collegues that their husband work with. My thought was to contact the wives of the crew members my husband works with and introduce my self with the intention of forming some additional way to keep tabs on the wayward members of the industries, for myself as well as others. This, however would have to be a big secret because pilots would not tell their tales to each other or be seen with their other lovers if they knew that their wives were in touch with each other. The fact that this idea crosses the line of "honesty" concerns me now, but it seems like such a good idea.<BR>I did try to call the wive of the engineer but she was not home. I am thinking now that I should not call her back because my husband did not want me to in the first place. Is he trying to hide something new from me? My H mentioned to me that the engineer currently has a friend who is a female that he goes places with when in Germany, but it is just platonic.hmmmm. Would that be something I would or should mention to the wife if I were in communication with her. It just seems too easy for pilots to screw around with their wives none the wiser and it really pisses me off. Any thoughts on this idea would be appreciated.
