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My wife had an affair approximately two months ago. I am having a hard time forgiving and forgetting. I need help in what to do. I am told to focus on the future, but it is hard to do that when the thought keeps popping up in my head. What do I do to get those thoughts out of my head and to move forward?
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Welcome D1P,<P>You have arrived at the right spot. You will find that everyone here feels your pain, and will help you through this.<P>Now, some questions. Have you read Dr. Harleys princibles? Are you on Plan A? Is your W still living at home? Do you have children?<P>I know your pain. This is a living hell. You will find that you need to take each day as it comes. It will be a rollercoaster ride of your life. Hang on!<P>Sending you prayers for strength and wisdom. I find the God is in charge of my life, and that He will not lead me astray?<P><BR>Keep posting here. You will get an enormous amount of support.<P>Wishing you well.<P>Cheryl
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Thank you very much for the reply. I just hope that I am able to move forward and not back. She is ready to move forward but I don't think that I am ready. I keep holding on to the feelings of what this has done to me.
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D1P,<P>If you could give us some backgroud, I think that you would get a lot of help.<P>How long ago did you find out about this affair? Is it over?<P>Cheryl
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About one month ago now. And yes, it is over. It was just a one time thing. I want to believe it, but it is hard to. We have been married for over eleven years and have two boys.
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